Hello David i think.you should sit down znd have a totally open convetsation about what you both wants and needs . Be totaly open .My wife and i talk about everythi g esp her sexual wants outside of our marriage ot had made ot alot better for out lifestyle our xexis bettet yet controlled but she enjoys getting well fuckrf bu one of her regular studs. ASK ME ANYTHING BOB
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Droppy you are so right From alot of resesrch and peo people on here The bull doesnt stay around or even acknowledges thd ...... its up to the couple for 18 yesrs to support the ...... plus can lead to resentment with the husband in time FUCK ALL.THEY WSNT TAKE AS MANY LOADS THE COUPLE WANTS BUT NO ......
Plus the ...... will probably never know who their real father is. This can cause problems later on if medical issues arise for the ...... because doctors cannot access the genetic and medical information of the unknown father which could serve as a valuable resource.
Hey Droopy we havent chatted in a while YOU were so right about the Latex for my hotwife Red she has really embraced latrx and she is wearing mostly latex and leather
She szy it feels so difffernt fucking in latex from open crotch panties and accesible crotch leggging snd open nipple latex bras. SHEssid she wsx going to try to spend 24 hrs in some type of latec including latex of some type to .......in fuck in she wore a open. Nipple top a open crotch thong type , she said her goal was to be totally fuckrd on latex she said she had apprehensions if she coukd do ot SHE DID SUCCEED.She came home the nect day snd i had to clean all.her latex some of it she told md had alot of cum.inside and outside of her outfits SHE Said i did a good joband even let ne out of my cage anf i got a blow job that i havent had in months all.because you helped me to convince her ti wrsr more latex But it did run up HER AMEX PURCHASES on my bill
Essentially that is what happened. We are now divorced, I don't see her any more and don't care what she is doing and I'm pretty sure that my sex life is over. While there's therefore nothing for me to say that would be of interest to those on the site, I admit that I have developed a bit of an obsessive desire to read and view the content on the site and see/hear what others are experiencing in their marriages.
My wife and I have a MUTUAL understanding about her ...... with other guys. To me, watching and thinking about her getting fucked is hotter than any porn I’ve ever seen. And she loves big cock. It’s a mutually beneficial arrangement that has only made our sex life even hotter.
If she was having a relationship with someone behind my back, we’d get divorced.
Love is a lot of things, but it is not deceit and betrayal.
If she was having a relationship with someone behind my back, we’d get divorced.
Love is a lot of things, but it is not deceit and betrayal.
Tough situation you’re in. Possibly you can have a mmf three way and at least be in the game. Even suggest ffm with you as the male. Seeing you in action may get her attention. At a minimum you will be sexually emboldened.
Did not see this post before my reply. Sex life is only as dead as you want it to be. Get back in the game and leave your heart out of it. Many are looking for pleasure without being fully invested. Good luck
I'm truly sorry that you had to endure the heartache you did. Thank you for taking the time to confirm the unfortunate results. I can understand how you would feel like your sex life is over. The opportunities become much less as time passes by. I have many, many friends that have divorced and remained single because they are so particular about compatibility (once burned, twice shy).
The important thing for you is to remain as positive as you can and continue to hope the right person comes your way. You've gotten yourself out of a bad situation. That hard work was the necessary first step towards being happy again. Don't give up on trying to find what you need to stay happy!
Ed dont let one person or anyone change your wants and needs in any part of life incuding sex.There is people out tgere that enjoy life and there lifestyles no.matter what it is Total communication is important im.sure you will find a lady that wants a guy that caring and willli g to discuss each other needs to what ever level.you each want. Feel free to ask me anything. BOB
Ed she should have sat diwn and have true ho est discussions a out everything its WRONG IN ALL WAYS NOT TO TALK OPENLY WITH YOUR PARTNER ABOUT EVERYTHING im soorry that she treated you that way for so may years
She. Could have told you her needs and the the two of you could be friends go to dinner things like that and be seperated but respect each other as bd at least enjoys some good times yet she chose to disrespect you and hersdlf by not being honest you two could have had a respectfull friendship INSTEADSHE NOT ONLY DISRESPECTED YOU BUT ALSO CAUSED EXTREME ANIMOSITY BETWEEN THE TWO.OF YOU TAKE YOU TOME AND FIND A LADY TGAT RESPECTS YOU. BOB
This is what I expected from reading your earlier posts. Now you are single but I don't quite understand what meant when you said your sex life was over. Did you mean it's over with her or over period? Do you feel so emasculated that you probably can't make with any women going foreword ? Just as a matter of interest, when my wife was breaking me in as cuckold, at first I resisted and even walked out on her in a fit of macho pride. I was like, no bitch is going to have all this freedom while making me an imprisoned cuckold and controlling my life. I laughed at the idea. I went my way like a self respecting man should. But I remembered what she said as I walked out the door: " You'll come crawling back." This I discovered was not an idle statement. As my time away from her increased, a feeling grew inside of me. I would pick up girls and have sex as best as I could but forgot how ineffectual I was in bed due to my lack of size. While some women were polite and faked it, others would laugh me out of bed or get up and leave telling me how pathetic I was. I found that the girls that laughed and rejected me turned me on. So I became obsessed with humiliation and remembered how that was my ex'es plan for me anyway. But I still had an emotional barrier I had to break. That was a certain kind of pride I had when I left her. I was intent on showing her how I was a 'real' man and didn't need her. I was mixed between standing my ground or surrendering to her and begging her to take me back. Well the joy of humiliation was stronger than my male pride which was pretty much destroyed by my attempts with other women. So I humbly called her and told her I wanted to come back. Her sadistic laughter gave me an instant erection and I knew she would allow me back. The intense shame I felt when she made me kneel before her and recite the rules that I would live by set the tone of my lifestyle and made me realize that this was my place. That was the day the last of my male ego and pride were snuffed out. Now, a knew kind of pride replaced it, the pride of doing my best to serve my dominant wife and never braking the rules she set for me.
This is probably the poignant post I've seen from you. Your situation/relationship is one that has always made me cringe. At first I didn't believe you but over time I've come to accept that you do truly live this way. What struck me was that I've never heard you talk about how you "knew what a REAL man should react like". I understand that you're well past those days and you're into accepting your place. Your focus changed. You learned new ways to be satisfied. Not everyone can do what you've done. You made a choice and stuck with it and made into what works for you. Otherwise you'd be gone like edcooke!
Much of what I write about is in reference to my very young years. I have known my wife since we were 6 or 7 years old as we were next door neighbors. My ...... was a strict woman with a 'spare the rod spoil the ......' policy. As children, my wife to be, seemed delighted in watching and laughing when I would get the belt. She often manipulated and tricked me into doing things that I would be punished for. Why I fell for her feminine wiles I don't know but I believe that I was a masochist in the making. She wowed me with her powerful charms and as we grew older this relationship took on quite a few facets. We were often together but she was clearly in charge and did a form of cuckolding even as teens. I was a sissy type boy in that I liked to cross dress and she used this to her advantage to ...... me into doing her bidding. Odd thing was that I got to enjoy the way she would humiliate me and I had little resentment or desire to get away from her. She let me wear a lot of her clothes and this made me feel more connected to her. There was a period however in the years leading up to our marriage where I started to go thru a change. I saw how other guys were in charge and my own friends started to notice how I was different and would tease me. So I tried to reinvent myself. We were talking marriage, still far off, but the topic of sex came up. I was a poor lover to her as older teens. I was small and she enjoyed teasing me about that which was no supprise and always cheated on me but I had to accept it. We did have an emotional love for each other but she always mixed in the humiliation when it came to sex. As the submissive she created, I always enjoyed that but something started to change in me. I wanted to experience the other side. I thought I could be like a regular guy. As we talked more about what marriage would be like I started to feel like we should have a more 50-50 relationship. She wasn't having any of that and told me it would be an FLM and she would cuckold me. We got into a fight. It was the first time I ever stood up to her and resulted in us splitting up. I would have my chance now to be my own man. That was basically what my previous post was describing. I failed to make the grade however. You said I learned new ways to be satisfied and I did but it was when I was very young so in a way I really never learned the 'normal' way. I was happy with what I had. I was like Screech on that tv show :"Saved by the Bell" who always got rejected while Zack, Kelly and the others got all the action and still Screech was happy.
oh my God...seriously? she's just a cheating whore. she's PLAYING you for a sucker. Cuckolding, hotwifing what ever u want to cvall it should be baout respect and trust and I see very little in what u have told us. the fact that she is basically blackmailing you with the notion that she wont stop is forsing u to go along with her fcked up ideas. You will get alot of so called positive advice from alot of folks in the lifestyle who will likenothing morte than to lure some poor sucker into their fcked up lifestyle. Most will a,lways do so because they need to be validate their own behaviour. if your wife cant be trusted and she obcviously cant then u need to tell her its over.. be a man for once in your life and stand up to her. if you dont you will always be a pathetic shadow of a husband. CVuckolding etc is just another form of ........no normal loving wife would do that to their husbands. any of those that say different are dillusional and most end up separated or divorced. in short...DONT DO IT. SAY NO.
I have heard this argument many times before. Always from people who don't understand the lifestyle. I always feel compelled to explain or at least help make the nay-sayers realize that there is a wide spectrum of lifestyles and relationships. A lot of these lifestyles depart greatly from what we think of as normal or 'vanilla'. My wife and I happen to be on the far end of this spectrum. But remember one thing, we are consensual. This is not ....... I am a submissive person and my wife is dominant. She enjoys cuckolding me and humiliating me and I enjoy this treatment. She has no respect for me as a man or a lover and I don't blame her but she does respect me as a person. She cares about my wellbeing and health. To use your words, yes I am a pathetic shadow of a husband but this is why she cuckolds me. Many others on this forum but not all have similar circumstances. It's not about trust or betrayal or cheating. She is head of the household and makes the decisions for both of us. My place is to obey her and follow the rules she set down for me as per my marriage vows to her. That doesn't make me a "poor sucker". I am too small in the manhood department to penetrate her, I have a micro penis so she cuckolds me. That doesn't make her a "cheating whore". Because of her strong dominant personality it gets her off sexually to be with her lover in front of me and rub it in my face. She loves to show me what I'm missing and will never get so she keeps me in a chastity cage. This amuses and pleases her and as an extreme submissive I get off on this as well. But she doesn't allow me out of my cage so I live in a frustrated state sexual denial. This further drives me to be her 'good boy' and do everything I'm told in hope of being allowed a short release from chastity so I can masturbate. This is a privilege she grants me. As her submissive husband I am grateful for this privilege. You mentioned that "no normal loving wife would do things like this" and most end up separated or divorced. Well we have been married for 20+ yrs. and never a fight. We get along perfectly because because out roles fit perfectly. There is no uncertainty over where my place is or where her place is. If I forget my vows then I get punished and later apologize. It's as simple as that. I'm reminded, sometimes very sternly, who is in charge. But I never considered leaving her. True I may not have a backbone or the balls to stand up to her but this is the the very essence of what it means to be submissive. I've seen several so called 'normal' marriages break up after just a few years, one of them after only two months. I've seen bitter divorces and unhappy relationships all because both partners want the upper hand even though they strive for the coveted 50/50 holy grail perfect marriage. Guess what, it doesn't exist. I've seen many nights ruined because a couple fight over whatever. She says he has had enough to drink or he gets upset because she is flirting with some guy. With us, she does what she wants and I do what she wants. No argument's. And we are both happy. I would never say no.
Droppy you are so right you and I had our differences of time but we chatted and we both realized every has to be open and up front with each other and not judge people's lifestyle some people like chocolate ice cream some dont. I dont hsve to tell you people dont talk and be totally open in lifr especially with alternative lifestyles
If people truly talked about there wants and needs in life not just SEXUAL there would be less divorces and or going behind people back thats not trust between two people . My wife is a hotwife as you and i have talked she cages me a day or tdi before het dates and im lockec up from2 days to 5 days. BUT like you have said several.times everyone needs to be honest znd open to one anothet . My wife snd i are not as extreme as you and your wife is but our lifestyle of her going out with other men hsx been rewarding our lifestyles are not for everyone some peoples are more extreme than other
My wife enjoyed het playtime outdide of our marriage and we agrre what is acceptable and what is not between us
.Omce again thank for our chats and your advise to others. ONE last thng your past advise on LATEX has really brought things to a new Level. she now wears more LATEX THAN, LEATHER Thank.you chat when you can Bob
I've seen posts from you two long enough for me to believe you guys are for real. It reinforces my thinking that "in the lifestyle" there are so many variations with sometimes subtle and not so subtle differences. When lifestyles get discussed here you can see similarities but almost always associated with some sort of distinction/boundary/arrangement. It's only my opinion but any couple that can make this really work are always a unique pairing that transcend the traditional.
I swear it makes me think of denominational-ism, like in Protestant churches (Methodist, Episcopalian, etc.0. There's a generally loosely based accepted central theme and from there, a million subtle and not so subtle differences. Everybody settles into what they are comfortable with.
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