We are a married couple; we have been together for 12 years. For starters before knowing her I used to hang around with some swinger couples always as a single, loved to see the couple enjoy the threesome with me, back in those days I was fit and in good shape. I met her, we started to date, going out, and we ended up being a couple.
She comes from a conservative family, I’m her second guy (or that’s what I’ve been told). So straight to the point. Due to movies, media and all that stuff fit and muscular guys tend to turn her on, I see her face and eyes whenever for example the actor that plays Captain America shows up, I see her emotion and arousal on her face.
Once we were in the bedroom and she was going down on me, and on the screen the actor whose last name is Evans, showed up, and we were like turned on, and talking about how she liked him, on that moment I encouraged her as the actor was on the TV, and told her:
-Suck me like you would suck him off- She kind of shied off, that did not ...... the mood, but did not ruin the mood, we ended up having good sex.
So any ways, we have a good relationship, and communication, sometimes she says how she likes x or y actor, and how he well build he is (turns me on), one birthday I blindfolded her to give her a present, she got the present it was a trip, but she liked, it but joked:
-I thought it would be you dancing for me or a sexy dancer for me- DAMMM that rally turned me ON!!!!
So any ways we have not been swinging, but I saw the couples enjoying it, I’m planning to give her something special, a gift for her, wanna se her enjoy some ne dancing for her, probably take her for a dinner, have a drink or two, make her go tipsy, blind fold her and prepare a male stripper all for her to enjoy, I want to see if she enjoys it all and even tell her is her special night.
I came to the forum in order to get ideas, tips, on how can I start convincing her, make her start thinking of it, and slowly guide her to that night and make it special for her.
She comes from a conservative family, I’m her second guy (or that’s what I’ve been told). So straight to the point. Due to movies, media and all that stuff fit and muscular guys tend to turn her on, I see her face and eyes whenever for example the actor that plays Captain America shows up, I see her emotion and arousal on her face.
Once we were in the bedroom and she was going down on me, and on the screen the actor whose last name is Evans, showed up, and we were like turned on, and talking about how she liked him, on that moment I encouraged her as the actor was on the TV, and told her:
-Suck me like you would suck him off- She kind of shied off, that did not ...... the mood, but did not ruin the mood, we ended up having good sex.
So any ways, we have a good relationship, and communication, sometimes she says how she likes x or y actor, and how he well build he is (turns me on), one birthday I blindfolded her to give her a present, she got the present it was a trip, but she liked, it but joked:
-I thought it would be you dancing for me or a sexy dancer for me- DAMMM that rally turned me ON!!!!
So any ways we have not been swinging, but I saw the couples enjoying it, I’m planning to give her something special, a gift for her, wanna se her enjoy some ne dancing for her, probably take her for a dinner, have a drink or two, make her go tipsy, blind fold her and prepare a male stripper all for her to enjoy, I want to see if she enjoys it all and even tell her is her special night.
I came to the forum in order to get ideas, tips, on how can I start convincing her, make her start thinking of it, and slowly guide her to that night and make it special for her.