What an interesting topic,
when i look at my young bride aged 18, i see a very young pretty girl who has already been fucked by another man, admitted this immediatley to me yet i still married her such was our friendship, love and understanding of each other, then i see.......
myself as a young nieve man, unaware of what i was signing upto, unaware of her naughty exploring mind, kinks, desires and enjoyment of flirting with other men and soon to be more.... i knew i liked her confession but she was now so vanilla surely never again as she assured me, even if i had liked her telling me.
In pictures in her late teens i see a 100% vanilla wife, now a ...... yet a sexually boring vanilla wife able to hid her desires from all even me,
In her early 20s now with two children a happy young women surrounded by our/her children, i do wonder whos ...... is she holding whilst smiling for my camera, me the nieve fool still beliving she would never cheat on me, even if i had wanted her to. As i later became aware though she was still a wild ......, still with the occasional itch and at 21 had a lover to scratch it, pre second .......
In her mid 20s i see pictures of her with my best friend whilst on holiday with his wife and kids, yet unknown to me they were now lovers too, (instigated by her i would add) he by this time had started converting me into accepting him trying to seduce her, he was sure she would, i knew she would not. without him mentioning he was already fucking her.
Painfully as my best friend he knew i rarely enjoyed the pleasures of the flesh, the too tired with the kids senario, headache, feel poorly, periods, just sort yourself out and the major pisser of a reply "later or tomorrow" i agree my shifts and that i was studying for promotions did not help this either. However i was really unhappy at my lack of sex life and overtime knew that tomorrow really meant NO.
I see in myself still a nieve fool, taken for a ride by them both, me a young man very sexually fustrated, yet at the same time my darling wife when in kinky mode planning with him to show me what she would like to have within the marriage, he as her lover openly. She just needed the right time and a senario to show and test my acceptance, she was steered by him for the right time to show me when, when he was sure i was likely to enjoy and accept this.
I had no idea that they discussed this between the bed sheets of our marital bed either this was work in progress for her and unknowingly often came up after he had dumped his seed into my fertile wife and as they cuddled. He later said she wanted you to know and had for several years, she was confident that if done right you would like it too.
So in a way its a painful period for me/us hence we have never had any early pictures on display in our house and she would not want them around either.