A question before I allow her to engage
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Firstly, you will have to change your attitude that you will allow her. You can ask her if she is interested and then discuss your feelings about cuckolding together without you laying down the law. It has to be what she wants first and foremost. Of course, most cuckolds get quite jealous and experience a lot of angst which can be a challenge to deal with but that is where the exhilaration largely comes from for the cuckold. Essentially, well for me anyway, it is largely about loss of control and that is why I suggest overcoming the idea that you will allow it.
Everyone is different of course, for myself, I've never felt any jealousy when my wife has played around. Our first experience happened almost by chance, she was pissed off with me, in a bar, and somewhat ....... That combo of three things led to her engaging with a guy who had his tongue in her mouth and hand up her skirt in no time. When I caught them at it, I wasn't angry or jealous at all, but just thought it was the horniest thing I've ever seen. Which did surprise me to be honest. But I've never felt jealousy since. As for her feeling ashamed, I think she did feel a little awkward about the first time or two, but that soon stopped and she just threw herself into the lifestyle and we've never looked back.
dinoo-2
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Me too I haven't felt any jealousy.
Even before being married, my wife to be knew I had no problem when she played around. She liked attention and showed me. Or told me afterward.
When I studied at an university, I rented together with a brother of my best friend three rooms. One for each of us an a very big one (with a bar) for joint use.
We, my wife to be and I, knew that we could be alone for an afternoon so we played around naked.
Totally unexpected so my roommate came in.
My GF tried to hide her private parts but my roommate could persuade her that he liked to see her naked.
From then on he played more often with her bare breasts (and of course nipples) than I did. Like my roommate was owning her.
I still can remember like yesterday how she would then keep her eyes fixed to mine. This with a very big satisfied smile.
Even before being married, my wife to be knew I had no problem when she played around. She liked attention and showed me. Or told me afterward.
When I studied at an university, I rented together with a brother of my best friend three rooms. One for each of us an a very big one (with a bar) for joint use.
We, my wife to be and I, knew that we could be alone for an afternoon so we played around naked.
Totally unexpected so my roommate came in.
My GF tried to hide her private parts but my roommate could persuade her that he liked to see her naked.
From then on he played more often with her bare breasts (and of course nipples) than I did. Like my roommate was owning her.
I still can remember like yesterday how she would then keep her eyes fixed to mine. This with a very big satisfied smile.
Oh my, what if she thinks she does it for you, and you think you do it for her. You guys needs a safe word, and maybe a plan how far you guys wants to go first time. No need to rush
Cuckolding is a complicated and emotional arrangement but we’ve found worth all of the jealousy and other risks. The first time it’s all a bit awkward so try to go with an experienced bull, one that understands his role, can help put you both at ease and slowly guide you both the experience. We went for a guy who’d been with loads of couples. Our preference was to try a slightly older black guy and that worked just fine, in our experience black men have more experience with these arrangements.
Once we started and relaxed she really got into it and to say that she enjoyed herself would be an understatement! He seemed to enjoy himself too and certainly got his value out of all of that upfront patience with us, three times over.
As for me there was a complicated mix of stuff in my head, lots of jealousy yes but also actually a lot of embarrassment, confusion and fascination. While my head was all over the place there was one thing for certain I had the hardest,and I mean rock hard erection, that I’d ever experienced! So, while your head and heart might say no your cock will shout an emphatic YES!
Go go it and enjoy.
Once we started and relaxed she really got into it and to say that she enjoyed herself would be an understatement! He seemed to enjoy himself too and certainly got his value out of all of that upfront patience with us, three times over.
As for me there was a complicated mix of stuff in my head, lots of jealousy yes but also actually a lot of embarrassment, confusion and fascination. While my head was all over the place there was one thing for certain I had the hardest,and I mean rock hard erection, that I’d ever experienced! So, while your head and heart might say no your cock will shout an emphatic YES!
Go go it and enjoy.