How long can everybody last in their wife or girlfriend? On a good day I might hit the 45 second mark before I blow in her pussy then go limp for hours.
How often do you actually fuck your wife or girlfriend? After 8 years me and my gf fuck maybe twice a year, but we have oral sex once a week.
How big is your cock? I'm about 6 inches but not very thick and especially narrow down around the base of my shaft. I've always heard that its the thickness in that particular area that women need to get the full, satisfying experience that they crave and my girlfriend is no different.
Would love to get to know about you and compare our situations ...
This is one of the more interesting threads I've seen here, kudos. And thanks.
I don't consider myself a cuck. We've always played with couples as well as the MFM thing (or the MFMMM). That being said we sort of drifted in the direction of playing with guys more often for a number of reasons. If you're connecting via the 'net it's actually easier to connect with a couple than with men (assuming you have standards). Wifey needs a girlfriend and I'm still waiting for that unicorn, BTW.
Couples vs men each has their own set of challenges. The big thing with couples is it's not unusual to see any particular couple mismatched as far as enthusiasm is concerned (preetty sure I could write a book on that one alone but I'll spare you and it's off topic). However there's also more difficulty with scheduling and such, especially when one or us or them works unusual hours. Another thing is we're evidently way more advanced emothinally as we're fine with same or separate rooms OK with kissing (uh, let me get theis right, you're OK with me poking my dick anywhere it'll fit in your wife while saying the most incredibly nasty things to her but I can't kiss her...seriously?) It might seem utopian but in principle we're open to either of us playing separately or "lending" one of us to another couple provided it possibly being reciprocal and we feel they're not going to take advantage. Also, sometimes it's about how I'm feeling about myself at the moment but that's complicated and I don't want to write anyone into a coma. Women, to my surprise, have always treated me wonderfully in these situations and it's always given me a huge ego boost. It's just I don't always feel it internally beforehand.
Men on the other hand are easier for me to "read" to get a good feel of how they'll conduct themselves/perform/behave. High on the list is their ability and inclination to be discreet. I'll loan you my wife but I won't loan you one of my cars. I know she'll find her way home and if her pussy is wrecked and she has a few dents and scratches I know she had a good time., LOL.
I'll point out that to us this is a team sport and we usually play together but she does see guys alone at times and I have no problem with that. I want all the details while she's blowing me later (debriefing and reclaiming are the same , mostly) BUT she's had some guys she kept as "spare" for emergencies, I guess that I find.... well, boring.
I have the same privileges just not as much opportunity. When Opportunity knocks I usually miss it or I'm too busy to reap the benefit.
When we are using ads I'm the one doing the initial screening and I'm very good at it. Men self-select. They can't help it. those that have the ability to fool me mostly make the cut anyway. The majority that deselect themselves do so by being poor communicators, an indication of deceptiveness, laziness or low intellegence. Either way it doesn't matter the effects could be the same. What a lot of guys don't get is this is like choosing a team to rob a bank, it's just that the Bank of Wifey wants to be robbed.
I'm not opposed to the term "cuck" and I'm certainly not judgemental I'm even open enough to the possibility of certain cuckish roleplay. It's just that I think words are important when they're describing things. Otherwise you could call me a "Tupperware bowl". You can call me anything but don't call me late for lunch....
Size? About average with a little extra girth. That is a little over 6 if you pull on it reeeallly hard.
As far as lasting, back in the stone age with someone new I might make under a minute which was likely a dissapointment to some young women until they found out about rounds 2.3 and 4 which lasted longer. BTW I used to cum a LOT. If you've heard of Peter North you have an inkling. Nothing like that these days... usually.
We fuck maybe once or twice a week mostly. If she's on vacation and we have lots of time and privacy then more.
how long I last is a bit complicated. I almost never pop right away like in the old days, often going 15-20 minutes. When I say we fuck "once" sometimes that means we maight start out on Firday or Saturday night put on some porn and diddle and such for however long before actual fucking. Lots of times (very often) we can start out a 8 or so in the evening and not even get to that part until almost daylight. If I'm really turened on I might cum sooner, or it's been awhile. But a lot of times I get to a point where I'm just about to cum and then if I don't let it happen, or somehow it doesn't happen then I get stuck at the brink for hours. Then its a struggle to go over the brink. It's like edging but it's involuntary. It fells reeeeellly good and if I do manage to cum it's a lot and it dells relly good. The volume matters because it feels better when there's more, it just does.
Many times I'll try and try and then just give up because I can throw may back out, or I'm just out of breath, thirsty and hot, Wifey's begging for mercy. She's a trooper and although I've explained to her that I'm perfecty fine with it, it's still unbelievably good she will try everything until she wears out. Sometimes I'll make her give it up if she doesn't on her own and I'll try to do it mayself but if I can't do that very quick it gets to where there's no feeling at all I know that it's just not going to happen and I'll probably be too sore for another shot at it if she's game after she wakes up and we eat, etc.
It's not bad, it's different. And being on the brink a long time actually feels great. I still want that release if I can get it but don't want to be on a hot pad for a few days trying to get it.