A 1000 miles journey starts with the first step.

[Locked]

Hello everyone,

First I want to share how much I appreciate this forum. Had the cuckold fantasy for years and never felt like it's a good fantasy, always felt like what I want is somehow wrong. With so many cuckolds here I realised this is quite normal. And because of that I am planning to share my cuckold fantasy with my wife today.

In few hours we are going out to a restaurant and then a bar. Feels like a good moment when alcohol is involved.
Honestly, I do not expect very positive reaction. I just hope the conversation will be a food for thoughts. I hope with the time she will see I am serious about it and may proceed with cucking me.
A 1000 miles journey starts with the first step.

A little about us:
We are in our early 40's. We are both fit, she is more fit than me (I have to admit) as she is hitting the gym 4 times a week.
Also I am locked in chastity for the last 2 years, which she loves. Rarely (once per 2 months) I am out of the cage and can have sex, but it's not the greatest sex as you can imagine after erections being suppressed for 2 months. So, not the greatest erection and definitely not the greatest stamina. I go down on her almost daily, which I always loved to do and got pretty good at it.

Anyway, will keep you posted until it happens or until I give up (whatever comes first).

Cheers.

 

[vrmtr1]

I wish you luck! you are in a cage, so she does have a kinkier side to her already..maybe she will see the value in cucking you...maybe she is already excited and needs the release. How did you get her to cage you? Who brought that idea up?

 

[Locked]

I wish you luck! you are in a cage, so she does have a kinkier side to her already..maybe she will see the value in cucking you...maybe she is already excited and needs the release. How did you get her to cage you? Who brought that idea up?

I brought the idea of the cage, she didn't love it or hate it in the beginning, it was more like "it's your penis, if you want to lock it - lock it". But when she started experiencing the benefits - she got really serious with protecting the keys from me.
She has a kinky side. We had OF account some years ago, which somehow helped me with my cuckold desires, it wasn't a real cuckold experience, but it was nice to see other men wanting her or wanking on our videos. We closed the account, because at some point it felt like all the sex we have is just for the camera and also we started introducing the cage, i.e. no more normal sex.

 

[vrmtr1]

I know of some, but specifically what were the benefits your wife saw with caging? I'm trying to introduce it to my wife and hope she too withh embrace it to some level. We can take this conversation to messaging if you'd like

 

[Locked]

I know of some, but specifically what were the benefits your wife saw with caging? I'm trying to introduce it to my wife and hope she too withh embrace it to some level. We can take this conversation to messaging if you'd like

Sure, feel free to DM.
Just a short list of the benefits for both of us:
- I am much more focused on her pleasure
- I started to experience sexual pleasure by providing sexual pleasure
- started to do a lot more chores in home, somehow just want to do them and help her
- she doesn't feel pressured for sex which relaxed her and made her want sex more (just oral in our case)
- I am relaxed, feel more mental clarity and focus, which also means we do not fight about stupid things
- I don't watch porn anymore, it doesn't do anything anymore
- when I finally have orgasm, I enjoy it a lot more and feel grateful she allowed it
- overall I have more energy
- she feels pampered, because I started to ask her often what can I do for her, bring her something or whatever

Hope it is not against the rules to share a link. You may want to check this [website]. I sent it to my wife and there was a definite change in her after she read it. We even did the 90 days initial lock-up period, which turned into 150 days.

 

[Locked]

We had the conversation and it went very much as expected.
I started with the fact that since I am locked in cage our sex is quite bad, I can not perform the way I did in the beginning of our relationship (we had great sex back then). Now, even if I manage to have some sort of acceptable erection, my lack of stamina does not allow me to go over 2 minutes - expected when I do not experience any stimulation on the penis for months.
She agreed our sex is bad and then I asked how she feels about having good sex with someone.
She quickly answered she can never do this.
Then I told her I want her to know:
- I am not trying to use this to get rid of her, I love her and I want to spend my life with her
- I am not trying to have the same option for me, I expect to stay locked
- I will not use this against her in any way, it's my idea
She said she already knows all of this. If I had asked her in the beginning of our relationship she would be offended and would think I don't love her. But now she knows me very well, knows how much kinky I am and understands it's just about the sex. Still for her feels like she would be cheating and she can not do this to me. And us being good together is more important for her than any kind of sex.
I pointed out cheating requires some sort of deception and it can not be cheating if I am there or, at least, I want it to happen. And us being good together and good sex for her are not mutually exclusive, she can have both.
She agreed, but still doesn't change how she feels about it. She still sees it as cheating and can not do this to me. Also she pointed out sex is not important for her.
I felt like this is enough for now and to close the topic I just said I want her to know if she likes someone or finds someone suitable - she just have to tell me and we will see how we will proceed, but for sure would be slowly, maybe will start with flirting first.
She said ok, but I should not have hopes, because she doesn't think this is going to happen ever and hopes I am ok with that.
I said I am ok if that's how she feels, obviously not going to pressure her into something she doesn't want to do.
Then we both thanked each other for the open conversation and being so honest about this.

So, from my point of view, this is not happening in the near future. But, as I mentioned in the first post, I hope it will be food for thoughts. I can't stop hoping, but I am not planning on bringing again this topic any time soon (not in the next month anyway). I do not give up yet, but it feels like I should back down for awhile.

 

[Locked]

We had a very brief conversation again, because there are some relatives around for the holidays. She again said she can not do this, but we agreed to speak more after the holidays when we are alone. Also it looks like some roleplay is possible. I said I understand we can not do it, but maybe we can speak and find some middle ground, which is good for both of us. And she agreed.
She also asked me do I want the same arrangements for me - again reassured her I do not want this for me.
I don't think she believes me yet. She even thought I want open relationship and she can not do it and was scared I will leave her because I can not be with other women. I guess it will take some time till she believes me I just want to see her fully satisfied by someone with a big and thick penis and I do expect to stay locked. Not sure why she thought I would want to sexually disappoint another woman.
Will see how the conversation after the holidays will go.

Something else also came in my mind. I am always locked and I get one day every two month without the cage and we have sex. In the past we tried permanent chastity, but we both got bored a little after 5 months into it and she admitted she started missing the sex. I may try to stay locked for the whole 2025 and make her miss sex more. I know this by itself will not convince her, but it may help her decide to have sex with someone if she did not have penetrative sex for an year. Of course will continue providing oral every time she wants, which is almost every day.

 

[Locked]

Another conversation and maybe a small step in the right direction.

• Wife agreed to do some roleplaying.
• Wife agreed to share when there is a man she finds attractive (even gave me 2 examples, both celebrities).
• Purchased and already read the book "The faithful hotwife" myself, she agreed to read it.
• Wife agreed her pictures to be shared here, but without face.

Still she says she can not cuck me, because she loves me and if she does that it would mean she doesn't love me anymore. Which I completely understand and, of course, hope she will change the way she sees it.
Asked her what she thinks about erotic massage and she said it's kinda the same thing, so probably no, but she will think about it (small hope here, maybe will happen in a month or two).

Since she allows me to share her photos, here is the first one. Tributes are welcome.

 

[nycelegantgeorg]

Who are the celebrities?

 

[JaknSuz]

Beautiful pic! Much respect to you for abiding by her no faces rule. 👍 If you continue gently, as you have so far, you may be rewarded with her changing her mind. The way we view it, it isn't cheating as long as you do it together with mutually agreed upon rules. Enjoy your journey, whatever it brings.

 

[Locked]

Who are the celebrities?

Not sure I am at liberty to share.

Beautiful pic! Much respect to you for abiding by her no faces rule. 👍 If you continue gently, as you have so far, you may be rewarded with her changing her mind. The way we view it, it isn't cheating as long as you do it together with mutually agreed upon rules. Enjoy your journey, whatever it brings.

I actually agree on the no face rule, don't want us recognised by someone who knows us.
As for the cheating - my point of view is.. this is not the act of having sex, but the lie and the deception. That's why someone can cheat on a test, for example.

Here is the next picture. Wife likes to flash and I have some flashing pictures. Definitely will upload more.
Probably I will not have updates every time I upload picture, maybe there will be some posts here from me just with pictures.

 

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As always, tributes are welcome. Do not be shy to tell what you would do with her.

 

[toolman2c]

TY so much for Bravely posting ur super sexy wife. But most wifes that like that u take naked pictures want some of ur friends 2c her, and also knows witch one she wants to eXplore his cocksmanship abilities. ,even tho she says thats not for me., Good luck.

 

[Locked]

TY so much for Bravely posting ur super sexy wife. But most wifes that like that u take naked pictures want some of ur friends 2c her, and also knows witch one she wants to eXplore his cocksmanship abilities. ,even tho she says thats not for me., Good luck.

All I can say is that I hope you are right.

 

[Locked]

Small step today. Not even sure it is a step. The wife never said my cock is small, the best I could get out of her is that it looks cute.
Today, after I told her I would love it if she says it is small - she finally said it, she said it is small and tiny.
I almost came in my cage just by hearing it. Fortunately, I did succeed to stop the cumming, because I don't yet have permission to cum, probably around the end of the month or next month I will be allowed.

She still did not read the book "The faithful hotwife". She said she has to be in a mood when she does it, hopefully it will happen soon.

Two new pictures for everyone donating their time reading this.

 

[vrmtr1]

Small step today. Not even sure it is a step. The wife never said my cock is small, the best I could get out of her is that it looks cute.
Today, after I told her I would love it if she says it is small - she finally said it, she said it is small and tiny.
I almost came in my cage just by hearing it. Fortunately, I did succeed to stop the cumming, because I don't yet have permission to cum, probably around the end of the month or next month I will be allowed.

She still did not read the book "The faithful hotwife". She said she has to be in a mood when she does it, hopefully it will happen soon.

Two new pictures for everyone donating their time reading this.

My wife is now 4 days into the faithful hot wife. It sounds to be pretty good. Gives reasons why guys like the idea. Also starts out with easy then more medium level challenges. My wife is proud when she tells me about ones we have already done.

 

[Locked]

My wife is now 4 days into the faithful hot wife. It sounds to be pretty good. Gives reasons why guys like the idea. Also starts out with easy then more medium level challenges. My wife is proud when she tells me about ones we have already done.

Well, I read the book and the easy challenges look too easy. Like go out without bra or underwear - she rarely puts underwear and never puts a bra. Hope she will be interested in the medium challenges. I put some hopes on that book, but mainly for the roleplay part.

 

[vrmtr1]

Well, I read the book and the easy challenges look too easy. Like go out without bra or underwear - she rarely puts underwear and never puts a bra. Hope she will be interested in the medium challenges. I put some hopes on that book, but mainly for the roleplay part.

Are there any particular challenges you did like, or surprised that she did them?

 

[Locked]

Are there any particular challenges you did like, or surprised that she did them?

She didn't read the book yet, so it's not like she did a challenge. But she did some stuff for fun, not because it's a challenge.

• She never wears a bra.
• And rarely wears underwear, no matter if we go out together or she is going out without me.
• Sexy pictures whenever we are not together.
• We go exclusively to nudist beaches and yes, I am caged.
• She did flash a lot, I uploaded some pictures. Also have videos, but didn't upload them.
• The cock ring feels pointless when I am 24/7 caged.

As for what I would like.. Obviously I like all the things she did. And from challenges in the book, the ones she did not do (yet), I would say I like almost all of them. Maybe the cuckold extreme challenges involving my cum in my mouth or me sucking a dildo - it's not something I would like to do. Obviously I would if that's what it takes to get my fantasy come true, but I would prefer it if it's not needed. Especially the ones involving my cum are the most I would dislike and also I prefer to not cum, I like the denial.

Some new pictures:

 

[PatrickSarasota]

I don't feel like this is ever going to happen for my wife. I was invited by a member here to attend a private party he and his wife were going to so I could get a feel for things and decide if I really want to do this. I do. Not in the way that they do but they were very nice, not sure if I should mention them so leaving names out, and I met some of the men that do this for the wife of the house we were at (not same couple). It seems like this is what we should do but how do I convince my wife she should do it?