She doesn’t really have a particular guy picked out. She was on adult friend finder and started sexting with one guy and sent some vids. He came on way wrong and went psycho. Kinda set me back a long long way. It was amazing to have her screen shot the dick picks and her reactions to them from adult friend finder. I blow several loads for sure.It sounds to me like she is very close to trying. The one thing I see here as important is setting the stage. Is there someone who she is comfortable with and attracted to and if so have you talked about it with him. Instead of her comming out and saying allright I'll do it, maybe you should set up the opportunity. If you two are drinkers, a few drinks, a comfortable setting and a perfect opportunity with romantic overtones might persuade her to make the move. Arrange to have her other love intrest available and see what happens. Also remind her of how hot it is for you as well, before and after to chase away any guilt feelings that might try to arise.
Fingers crossed