What a great way to lose your wife.
Or have her glare hatred in your direction for such disrespect.
Have you lost your mind?
What meaning could the anklet possibly have for her wearing it without knowing its meaning? How would you feel if someone paraded you with their fantasy without your knowledge? What if you are cis-hetero and your wife tricked you into wearing a t-shirt saying "I give HJ's" without knowing what it meant?
You would essentially be forsing your fantasy onto her without her consent or knowledge. How low could that get?
Do you Love the Woman or your fantasy?
This is Your Fantasy.
This is about YOU and ALL about YOU. You do not care about her. You only care about using her for what you want.
You don't like these words? Good. Because you need it. She is going to shove you away at the rate you're going.
You cannot see HER. You only see her in your mind - bent over for someone else. And she will be and you won't get to watch.
Wake Up, dude.
You should only EVER offer her that anklet with her full approval and acceptance. To do otherwise is slimy, low and utterly Self Absorbed. You won't be a beta or a cuckold or a stag - just a POS.