Perhaps get her to take some photos of her body and post them on this site... im certain the response from the other members will be hugely positive and give her some self-esteem boost.
Get her to call you and put the phone next to the bed, your imagination will fill in the blanks and you'll get to hear it all. Pictures if possible of creampie are hot too. As long as you are not jealous and going to flip out about it later.
I think you're being a bit full on for a guy that has just told you he and his wife have only ever talked once about the lifestyle. You may be an experienced cuck, doesn't mean this gentleman will go down that path so far.
There's some really good podcasts made by hotwives, there's "The AuthenticHotwife" , "The Latina Hotwife Adventures" and "The Ethical Slut" and there are many others I'm sure. All fairly tame and respectful.
Perhaps ask her if she'd considered posting so.e "anonymous " photos (no face) of her body and see the reaction the other members of the site? I'm sure they will be all very positive.
Yes she's interested but doesn't know enough about the lifestyle to open dialogue. Perhaps five her some topic headers and explain the details. Some woman to woman conversation may help if you can get her to talk to another more experienced person.
I guess there's a lot of information needed to understand her mindset... if she did it while angry then it probably would have negative connotations for her. I wouldn't think it's all done and dusted though... you just need to find her trigger and use it carefully.
Let her read some hotwife stories ... (particularly from a woman's perspective)that'll help her understand and get ger hot and bothered. Explain the stag, bull, cuckold scenarios... see what she likes.