Wife is afraid toys will feel too good

[had_couple]

This is sort of follow up from other threads. I'm seeing if I can get my wife, who has said no to toys on multiple occasions, to shift her view on them and try some toys.

Her stated reason for not wanting them is that she's afraid they'll be too good (especially vibrators) and that all she'll want is them. I don't think this is the case, and in any case, I don't mind what she likes as long as she's having a good time. Also, I was planning to start with butt plugs or dildos anyway, not vibrators.

Any advice on where to go from here? For now, I'm being gentle with this and hoping that time will be on my side.

 

[Joecde3vfr4]

This is sort of follow up from other threads. I'm seeing if I can get my wife, who has said no to toys on multiple occasions, to shift her view on them and try some toys.

Her stated reason for not wanting them is that she's afraid they'll be too good (especially vibrators) and that all she'll want is them. I don't think this is the case, and in any case, I don't mind what she likes as long as she's having a good time. Also, I was planning to start with butt plugs or dildos anyway, not vibrators.

Any advice on where to go from here? For now, I'm being gentle with this and hoping that time will be on my side.

Vibrators can really enhance both of your sex lives, but humans will always crave the real thing. Not just the real feeling of flesh but the intimate feeling of sharing an experience with another person.

You hear of vibrators desensitizing some women, but that is very rare and probably resulting from habitual addictive use.

I still suggest getting one that you can both enjoy, and introducing it as a gift to enhance her pleasure.

Try surprising her with a Lovense Lush while you are going down on her and she is feeling really good. While you are licking her clit, turn it on and slowly rub it on her lips and open hole. If she responds well keep stimulating her lips and hole until she is ready for you to slide it inside her. Then make sure you press it up to the back of her inner clit as you suck her to a squirting orgasm.

You can then fuck her with the lush still inside her for another incredible orgasm for both of you.

 

[had_couple]

Vibrators can really enhance both of your sex lives, but humans will always crave the real thing. Not just the real feeling of flesh but the intimate feeling of sharing an experience with another person.

You hear of vibrators desensitizing some women, but that is very rare and probably resulting from habitual addictive use.

I still suggest getting one that you can both enjoy, and introducing it as a gift to enhance her pleasure.

Try surprising her with a Lovense Lush while you are going down on her and she is feeling really good. While you are licking her clit, turn it on and slowly rub it on her lips and open hole. If she responds well keep stimulating her lips and hole until she is ready for you to slide it inside her. Then make sure you press it up to the back of her inner clit as you suck her to a squirting orgasm.

You can then fuck her with the lush still inside her for another incredible orgasm for both of you.

Thanks for the suggestion. Any reason to introduce a vibrator instead of a dildo? (again, while licking her clit)

 

[Joecde3vfr4]

Thanks for the suggestion. Any reason to introduce a vibrator instead of a dildo? (again, while licking her clit)

Mostly because the Lovense Lush is by far my wife’s favorite toy… I have caught her mastering on hidden camera dozens of times and it is her go to instead of the dildos I have bought her.

Plus I love that I can fuck my wife with the Lovense inside her. I can be all the way inside her and then pull the take towards her opening and she says she feels so full!