Congratulations! You’re a lucky man. That’s a huge step.
My wife is in the neutral zone. If 20-30 yo hunk put the hit on, she would not hesitate. The only thing inhibiting my wife is... there’s not an easy segue, not a clear path to slip in. There no soft entry... she’s open to exploring. But jumping on to a swinger hookup site is too intentional— too overtly taboo. She wants to meet a “ laid back guy” to get to know first, then step it up.
I will be in your shoes some time in the future. For now, I look forward to reading about your journey. (Please share it).