After a long time talking my wife into getting a lover, just over a year ago she had her first experience. We have gone slow, always with the same guy, and over time she has got to really enjoy his visits, wanting to meet more often and letting him go bare inside her. Ive let her drive the relationship with him not providing any limits. When chatting about his visits, she says how good he feels and how amazing their sex feels. I love that she is enjoying their time together but im surprised how much she enjoys and craves it. Any others have the same experience where she enjoys it more than expected?
Wife enjoys her lover more than expected
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Women are amazing in their capacity to enjoy sex, that's for sure. Early in our marriage when she was having sex with a BF (I knew him and eocouraged) she was really enjoying it, but distance and the calendar limited their trysts to every three weeks or so - she was frustrated by that. The fantasy is so much different than the reality in that we have jobs, families and other stuff and all of a sudden we need to create time for the wife to be with a BF. That means hubby will have to pick up the slack in order to make it all happen for his wife. It really forces hubby to "walk the talk." That's how we rolled, anyway and it was very satisfying for the three of us.
I've put in bold how it's been for us. We do this with the same guy. We started out slow and worked up to getting comfy with this.
We are pretty conservative, wife especially so. It's not cuckold for us, we both have sex with her, always all three of us together, they never get together without me.
Wife won't really talk about it with me, she says sex with him is different not better.
WHILE he's with us it's VERY obvious she likes the sex they have. She's constantly saying how good it feels when he's doing her. She moans a LOT with her eyes closed. We take turns doing her and it's a way different view watching but the way she moves with him tells me she loves it.
I get jealous feelings seeing how turned on she gets with him but it's all good.
We don't use rubbers when he's with us, we both usually cum inside her. We don't play with the sperm, she wipes off between rounds(usually) but the mess is part of the sexy fun.
After he's been with us she's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of very good sex.
We aren't swingers, none of our friends know we do anything like this.
Our fun with him has improved our sex life like crazy.
I knew Sonja wanted a more manly lover and influence as I also lusted and leaked about her smitten desire for her boytoy next door; the negative is the times she compares his attributes to my deficiencies, the positive is when she realizes I have accepted their relationship and she now extols my virtues
My wife has a boyfriend she’s been seeing now for about 2 years. We sometimes see him together other times she spends time on her own with him. It has been a great experience, she loves their sex life. They both now know each other’s body’s and sexual turn on’s so much now, it didn’t take too long before they started having sex unprotected, which was a game changer! I love watching them together they as they are so into each other, it’s very intense! He can make her cum so many times during the night. This is something that doesn’t happen a lot for her with one night stands, she enjoys the sex but they very rarely make her cum. They definitely has some feeling for each other, something that I never even thought about before we started opening up our relationship, and the first time I watched them make love, not fucking, was a bit had for me, but so much of a turn on. We talked a lot after that night about their relationship and how she had been getting feelings for him for a while. She made me feel that’s It’s not something that threatens me or our relationships we talk all the time about everything and I’m more glad for her than anything else. She is a very passionate person and she is more than capable of having feelings for someone else without it affecting us. I would trust her with my life and I feel so comfortable in our marriage. I know it’s not for everyone but it works so very well for us and we are closer than ever since we opened up our relationship because we are more open about every aspect of our life not just our sex life.
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Great to hear your experiences. We have been the same, struggling to find the time, but she has been great at making time to meet with her lover.
Its great to hear your experience, it sounds like its working very well for you all. Ive been encouraging her to meet him often and told her it fine for her to enjoy it and having feelings for him is ok and expected. I want her to have feelings for him and to build a relationship with him. Hearing your experience suggests im on the right track. Thanks again
My wife said he was the best fuck she ever had
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