This happens regularly when our wives step out. Especially with DOM type guys like this. My wife has cancelled dinners, weekend, holidays, all plans, etc with me when guys called her spur of the moment and wanted her. she is SO turned on by them doing this...they are horny, hard, and its HER they think about. She enjoys being used in this manner and many women will. Telling her to stop will only result in her sneaking around behind your back...........right now, its at least totally in the open and she's not lying to you. She just WANTS to be his available piece of ass ad the rewards that go with that.
J has beoken all or our "rules" too, tho they are few............ was abig one for me, but she has broken that several times wiht guys that she wanted affairs with and that made it happen. She goes out with them, they all end up so ...... and/or high that they cannot drive and she has to spend the night or get a cab home......and since we live in a rural area, she usually ends up staying the night.
Its his "bad boy" attiatude tiwards her that she loves, and using her like a hole to relieve himself in too. I oersonally can't stand guys like this, but that has not stopped J from being their entertainment over the years. And if I had tried to stop it, she would simply have done it without my knowledge, which is what leads to relationship problems down the road. Let her enjoy being his "toy", he'll tire of her and find a new one eventually but she will remain available to him ANY time he wants or calls. EVen if its years down the road........she'll JUMP when he calls.
Enjoy her sexcitement with this and don't ruin a good relationship over it.
CW (from experience)