Our comment wasn't about people being verified or not. That's up to you to make that choice.
It took us a while to learn and appreciate certain things about this site as well.
Once we were full on board, we thought getting verified makes our profile more legit.
That's just how we see it.
For us the verification status is a tool to see if anyone is serious. We do respect the males who want to get to know this lifestyle and seek advise to get their wifes or GF on board in the exciting world. But that doesn't mean you can't be verified. You still can. And once things evolve in a good way and your wife/gf is on board, ask for your status to be changed and verify again. If you want to make it harder on fakers the verification tool is a step in the right direction.
But we just don't like it when some people start to complain that there are only fakers on this site.
Certainly when they register as a male and claim to be a couple, don't want to get verified but still like to rant about that 99% is all BS.
That's not fair to the people who are trying to do ok.