It matters for those of us who come here to do more than just chat about fantasies. Who would seriously like to connect in real life with others, which i point out in the original post.
And fyi... i have actually met and connected with a real couple and female in Oregon from here.
But 95% of the people who contact me don't bother to read my profile FIRST where I say exactly why i am here, and waste my time when their woman is not interested or doesn't know. This is why i made this post.