Slightly off topic, but regarding the topic of paying for membership on swinger sites, as a relatively new bull I can say that in my experience, it is very hard to find a couples, ESPECIALLY a couple who want something ongoing and are not crazy bed hoppers. I personally am not a bed hopper, so I prefer to stick with 1/2 couple MAX and become a boyfriend to the wife rather than a 'bull'. So the best strategy is to spread the search net as far and wide as possible. I have bought membership on swinger sites like SDS, but most people on there want couples, not a boyfriend/bull. I cant tell you how many profiles I have seen on those sites that say "NO SINGLE MALES ALLOWED", and when I see that on their profile, I immediately block them because there is no point in wasting time with someone who is not looking for a single male. In summary, the best strategy as a bull, in my humble opinion, is to spread your search net as far and wide as possible, and that includes, making an account on paid sites, as well as unpaid sites such as this one.
