Like most men on here or single men, it's all about hook up and married woman or rather woman in a relationship.. rather it be swingers, cuckold or open already have a partner.. that means hook ups is not what most are after. Most want connection, for example if you DM a wife here or couple with a dickpic or a message "let me see your wife / want to fuck?" you might get ignored or rejected.
As @Htwf4fwb has explained, it comes across just using someone as a property or fuck doll, cum and dump to be put it.