Thanks for the input....there are a lot of sites here in Nor Cal, but sifting through all the static has been extremely challenging, the weirdo ratio has been extremely high. We've discussed finding a guy out of the area....we have traveled out of the area to meet a few couples. The problem there is that we decided that we need to take the time to get to know someone well enough and build enough trust, rather than meet a guy at the hotel bar and head up to the room two hours later. That....and it would also be good to have someone local, that she could go visit when the mood strikes. She doesn't drive particularly well, so would need to be somewhat close by.
