When things went bad?

[x9215x]

Although this lifestyle is great and works for many, does anyone have some stories of when things didn’t go so well?

Maybe you for the first time and it lead to a split/divorce due to the hotwife not enjoying it? someone caught feelings for their bull or got pregnant by them and decided to stay with them?

Obviously it’s more fun to talk about the good stuff but as someone who’s very close to getting their wife to cuck them, I like a balance and to see all possible scenarios.

 

[Catholic_Wife]

Yes, not every experience comes great or could avoid any hard feelings after a while.

We know a friendly couple that splitted after a couple of years doing this. The wife met a guy with whom she developed an intense chemistry, passion, friendship and that fact triggered jealousy between the spouses and so things escalated to the point them parted ways and she (at least as far it is known) is now with the new guy.

Ourselves had some bad experiences with other men, but mildly problems. There was one of friend who one day showed up to our hotel room with one of his mates (a guy we never knew or heard about before, and kind obnoxious) to fuck wife. Obviously it didn't worked out. There were cases of men wanting some sort of a romance with her which is way too different than a hotwife/swing thing and such.

 

[x9215x]

Yes, not every experience comes great or could avoid any hard feelings after a while.

We know a friendly couple that splitted after a couple of years doing this. The wife met a guy with whom she developed an intense chemistry, passion, friendship and that fact triggered jealousy between the spouses and so things escalated to the point them parted ways and she (at least as far it is known) is now with the new guy.

Ourselves had some bad experiences with other men, but mildly problems. There was one of friend who one day showed up to our hotel room with one of his mates (a guy we never knew or heard about before, and kind obnoxious) to fuck wife. Obviously it didn't worked out. There were cases of men wanting some sort of a romance with her which is way too different than a hotwife/swing thing and such.

Interesting stories and I think things getting carried away is a big risk. The first time we tried, I stopped things because my then gf was getting way too into it and was talking about and to the guy 24/7 so seemed more like dating than hotwifing.

I guess it’s good she is happy with the new guy but it’s a risk if this lifestyle. I’ve been obsessed with cuckolding for probably 10 years now so I’ve read a lot of good and bad.

 

[Iahotwifeshusband]

My wife fell for one of her fuck buddies and we nearly got a divorce at the time. She had my full support to fuck other men when she met this guy, but we had agreed that she would cut things off immediately if she ever developed feelings for someone else.

While her fucking other men never left me feeling betrayed, when she decided to pursue a relationship with the first guy she developed feelings for, I certainly felt betrayed. At first, I tried to encourage her to cut ties with him. After she continued to make him a priority over me, I told her that this wasn’t okay and that I wanted to get a divorce.

We generally agreed on how to separate our assets and how we were going to coparent our kids. I was working on the legal paperwork that would need to be filed and once I started to need her to sign paperwork, she started to understand the reality of the situation. After a few months, she decided to cut this guy off and focus on repairing our relationship.

It has been a couple of years since that happened and we are still together. We took a break from the lifestyle, but she is again playing from time to time. She has had a regular fuckbuddy for the past year who fucks her about once a week. They are friends that fuck, but she hasn’t shown any signs of wanting anything more from him. And he doesn’t want anything more with her either.

I don’t know if I will ever trust her like I did before, but we are making it work.

 

[x9215x]

My wife fell for one of her fuck buddies and we nearly got a divorce at the time. She had my full support to fuck other men when she met this guy, but we had agreed that she would cut things off immediately if she ever developed feelings for someone else.

While her fucking other men never left me feeling betrayed, when she decided to pursue a relationship with the first guy she developed feelings for, I certainly felt betrayed. At first, I tried to encourage her to cut ties with him. After she continued to make him a priority over me, I told her that this wasn’t okay and that I wanted to get a divorce.

We generally agreed on how to separate our assets and how we were going to coparent our kids. I was working on the legal paperwork that would need to be filed and once I started to need her to sign paperwork, she started to understand the reality of the situation. After a few months, she decided to cut this guy off and focus on repairing our relationship.

It has been a couple of years since that happened and we are still together. We took a break from the lifestyle, but she is again playing from time to time. She has had a regular fuckbuddy for the past year who fucks her about once a week. They are friends that fuck, but she hasn’t shown any signs of wanting anything more from him. And he doesn’t want anything more with her either.

I don’t know if I will ever trust her like I did before, but we are making it work.

Good to hear you managed to work things out and she made the right choice. I’ve read a lot of people will find a guy that has a major dealbreaker the women would never settle for to ensure things don’t go too far.

Appreciate you sharing that!

 

[Ocguy]

2004-2007
When I noticed how her coworker who was training her to take his position was always waiting with her, she would be sitting on the bench as he was standing next to her. He was what she called a hunk of man.

I knew he was titty fucking her in his mind, nonchalantly staring down her blouse as he talked to her.

A year later I talked her into fucking him. We tag teamed her every other weekend and the weekends we didn’t meet we would fuck her on our hour lunch as I only worked less the 10 minutes from them. 2 years into I changed jobs and now was working weekends.

We agreed she could now go solo.
It was almost 4 yrs of her being a slut when she left me for him.

 

[575Cuck]

Although this lifestyle is great and works for many, does anyone have some stories of when things didn’t go so well?

Maybe you for the first time and it lead to a split/divorce due to the hotwife not enjoying it? someone caught feelings for their bull or got pregnant by them and decided to stay with them?

Obviously it’s more fun to talk about the good stuff but as someone who’s very close to getting their wife to cuck them, I like a balance and to see all possible scenarios.

Yes
The one boyfriend she had caused some damage. He thought he could wisk her away with his big cock
He overstepped in so many ways
It’s a shame because she truly loved his cock
He turned out to be a home wreaker for sure
Even some of the girlfriends she had did the same too
Now she will not date by herself
I am always there and no more ...... overs or vacations
It certainly ruined the fun

 

[coastalkid]

Although this lifestyle is great and works for many, does anyone have some stories of when things didn’t go so well?

Maybe you for the first time and it lead to a split/divorce due to the hotwife not enjoying it? someone caught feelings for their bull or got pregnant by them and decided to stay with them?

Obviously it’s more fun to talk about the good stuff but as someone who’s very close to getting their wife to cuck them, I like a balance and to see all possible scenarios.

Oh man! I am with you! My favorite thing is to hear how people make it work over time. What do couples do to keep fun things fun and everyone content?

[B]Iahotwifeshusband[/B] is great example of trials and tribulations. And he's been here through it all with us good and bad. I've learned a lot from him alone. His posts are straightforward and cut to the bone sometimes. ​

Far to often I read threads where it's so out of balance that I lose interest because I would never find excitement in the extreme situations some people seem to enjoy. A lot of times those people disappear quickly.

 

[x9215x]

2004-2007
When I noticed how her coworker who was training her to take his position was always waiting with her, she would be sitting on the bench as he was standing next to her. He was what she called a hunk of man.

I knew he was titty fucking her in his mind, nonchalantly staring down her blouse as he talked to her.

A year later I talked her into fucking him. We tag teamed her every other weekend and the weekends we didn’t meet we would fuck her on our hour lunch as I only worked less the 10 minutes from them. 2 years into I changed jobs and now was working weekends.

We agreed she could now go solo.
It was almost 4 yrs of her being a slut when she left me for him.

Did she start to pay less attention to you and show signs or just one day up and leave?

 

[x9215x]

Yes
The one boyfriend she had caused some damage. He thought he could wisk her away with his big cock
He overstepped in so many ways
It’s a shame because she truly loved his cock
He turned out to be a home wreaker for sure
Even some of the girlfriends she had did the same too
Now she will not date by herself
I am always there and no more ...... overs or vacations
It certainly ruined the fun

Sounds like she was quite self aware of the dangers from the start but I think finding someone who will respect boundaries and not catch feelings can be quite challenging.

 

[x9215x]

Oh man! I am with you! My favorite thing is to hear how people make it work over time. What do couples do to keep fun things fun and everyone content?

[B]Iahotwifeshusband[/B] is great example of trials and tribulations. And he's been here through it all with us good and bad. I've learned a lot from him alone. His posts are straightforward and cut to the bone sometimes. ​

Far to often I read threads where it's so out of balance that I lose interest because I would never find excitement in the extreme situations some people seem to enjoy. A lot of times those people disappear quickly.

It is good to know and I like a balanced approach for everything. In all honestly I do like some of the extreme stuff (depending on how people define extreme) as although I kind of have a cheating kink so my wife leaving me for another man would be a big turn on for me.

But I’ve seen some very interesting stories over the years, especially from women going from full vanilla to really wild after trying their first big dick which I’m hoping my wife will be one of them.

 

[Lovefeet]

Oh man! I am with you! My favorite thing is to hear how people make it work over time. What do couples do to keep fun things fun and everyone content?

[B]Iahotwifeshusband[/B] is great example of trials and tribulations. And he's been here through it all with us good and bad. I've learned a lot from him alone. His posts are straightforward and cut to the bone sometimes. ​

Far to often I read threads where it's so out of balance that I lose interest because I would never find excitement in the extreme situations some people seem to enjoy. A lot of times those people disappear quickly.
[/QUOTE. Very well put....

 

[Ocguy]

Did she start to pay less attention to you and show signs or just one day up and leave

Did she start to pay less attention to you and show signs or just one day up and leave?

Did she start to pay less attention to you and show signs or just one day up and leave?

There was signs, a lot played into to it and I was still very involved, one thing that changed is this became an every weekend kinda of thing. If he wasn’t available for then one or two of his friends were. I always got calls of her getting fucked.

 

[x9215x]

There was signs, a lot played into to it and I was still very involved, one thing that changed is this became an every weekend kinda of thing. If he wasn’t available for then one or two of his friends were. I always got calls of her getting fucked.

So I’m guessing she prioritized the guy over your own stuff/events? This is all helpful as I know what to look out for once we get into the lifestyle.