I do not feel judged or criticized by you. You bring up valid points. Yes when it is focused solely on the sex aspect, it is titilating. Whether I am watching a guy having sex with my wife, fucking her, or knowing it is happening either here where we live ot elsewhere, it arouses me. I get off on it.
But like any relationship out there, straight, bi, gay, monogomous or promiscuious, the act of sex is really just a quick moment of ones life.
If I did not believe that we have solid marriage I am sure we would be having increasing conflicts in this lifestyle. But you are correct, from all that I have read and from postings on here and elsewhere, there is no concern about the cuckold or his feelings and desires. It is as if the man has been castrated, just a thing, a servant, there for the pleasure of the woman and many times the bull.
Interestingly in our marriage, we discuss everything, everything except sex. If we have sex together it just happens, nothing planned. I assume like all married couples, sometimes the sex is incredible, sometimes it is good and sometimes it is just the act, the orgasm and nothing more, maybe some cuddling.
However, when we decided to pursue the act of fucking by a guy to impregnate my wife, we had long serious discussions about it. We both agreed that it had to be mutual decision to go forward with it, how it should be planned, our concerns, any future role of the sperm donor, contingencies and of course, and the right guy whose cock would fuck and perform the deed.
But I will take your advice and make myself have a more open conversation with my wife about my feelings, desires, concerns of being a cuckold.
