This is an interesting experience that both of you should learn from RIGHT now. Your wife enjoyed the treatment and you found your boundaries. It sounds like you never discussed hard NOs in the beginning. My wife won't admit it, but she loves being treated rough and flat-out dirty when she is in the mood. I knew this going in and I find it a turn on that it turns her on. If you did not know this was a possibility with your wife, and you are the one feeling disrespected (for her? Really?), then you two need to keep going with the sit-downs. I completely understand your anger with her being dismissive of your feelings, and frankly, I would have shut the whole thing down. Part of your nature is to make sure she is safe and secure, but she sounds like she enjoys a bit of mistreatment...when you made a scene it put her in a position. She was turned on with your consent and you were there to ensure it all went well. Then, you got booted. You need to discuss this and make sure you are both on the same page. If she enjoys it, can you be there for her and make sure she gets what she wants safely? Or will you create tension? If she got off without you there, you may well be on your way to a full cuck life instead of the stag. To me, once you give up control to the other man, your cucked. To hell with what mr blanket statement up there says.
