Interested to hear how you’ve found out your wife/gf is cheating. All replies much appreciated.
Ways you’ve found out your wife/gf is cheating?
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One day my wife forgot to close out of her email on the computer we share. When I sat down to use the computer on the screen was displayed a detailed romantic email she had written to her massage guy. I was quite shocked and had no idea she was having an affair with him. When I confronted her she immediately ended the affair and I forgave her. It was 10 years ago.
With my first wife, I’d have people tell me they’d seen her out with other men when she was supposed to be elsewhere. Even had neighbours telling me they’d seen men turning up at our house while I was at work. Other times she’d come home tipsy from a ‘girls night out’ and it was obvious she’d been fucked. When confronted, she’d never deny cheating - she knew it excited me and that I’d forgive her, but if it was more than a one night stand, then that would be the end of that fling. The sneaking around was obviously part of the kick for her. The exception was an older neighbour who was the first she cheated with. She carried on fucking him for years.
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I was cleaning her car for her and in the trunk, in a plastic bag buried in the bottom of a box of stuff she has, was a tube of lube. I had given her permission to fuck/suck anyone she wanted with the caveat that if I ask she tell me what I want to know. So I asked her, denial. This was about 2010. I asked many times and told her she wasn't being honest.
Then about 2016 she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy ......! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer. I asked why she even did it, she said I did something at the time to ******** her off, but couldn't remember what.
Being that clueless, I wonder how many sloppy seconds I had and how many creampies I ate. Do I have regrets about it - only one - that I wasn't included in what was going on. So much sexual fuel gone to waste, I would have gladly and knowingly be her second and done cleanup
Then about 2016 she she said she did. I kinda of remember the time frame. She was going to her chiropractor 2-3 times a week. Then she says he wants to see her everyday as her back is in bad shape. At the time I didn't think anything of it. So during the 'confession' she asks me if I remember that time period, I say yes. Then she said she started to play with another patient. How often? She said not often enough but several times a week. A few times, several times in one day. I had no idea! How clueless I was. I asked her why she stopped, she said cause I found out. She said if I didn't say anything she would have continued. She added that they were getting ready to include his friends to their playtime. Holy ......! I asked why she wouldn't consider the 'friends' thing with us, she said I live with you. I never understood that answer. I asked why she even did it, she said I did something at the time to ******** her off, but couldn't remember what.
Being that clueless, I wonder how many sloppy seconds I had and how many creampies I ate. Do I have regrets about it - only one - that I wasn't included in what was going on. So much sexual fuel gone to waste, I would have gladly and knowingly be her second and done cleanup
My wife worked at Tim Horton's as a supervisor and had a young co-worker under her; they called each other incessantly and I mentioned to Sonja the possibility that he may like her. Sonja laughed it off as my paranoia. Kevin did come to the house a few times in his Lapis Neon license XCC-807 to go over doughnit and emulsion orders.
As a paramedic I work nights and did a Friday night shift and leaving Sonja home alone as our kids went to their grandparents. after I finished a call at 3 in the morning I went by my house to see the lights off and a lapis Neon in the driveway, license # XCC-807
As a paramedic I work nights and did a Friday night shift and leaving Sonja home alone as our kids went to their grandparents. after I finished a call at 3 in the morning I went by my house to see the lights off and a lapis Neon in the driveway, license # XCC-807
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