Want to leave lover but keep going back

[calicolombia69]

Wife has had a casual relationship for 18months now. Though they fucked on the very 1st night, the guy has always been adept at keeping her at a distance. Great bull with a great dick. She has wanted it to become more of a formal affair. But from the bleachers, I can see that he has always found ways to stall her.

She is always having to almost plead for a date or sex. He is always busy or too tired. Seldom do they see each other more than once a week; if that. He is fine to have an argument and not see her all thru the holidays.

We both agree to the obvious: dump him! But 1, its so hard to find other guys that equal him in the bedroom or 2 they are flakes. So its either Mr. full-of-himself or the massager. That, I think, makes it worse. He sees that she keeps going back to him. Her tits engorge whenever she gets confirmation that she will see him. Not to mention her 52yr old pussy: as sticky as a 20yr old!

I have said to her to just take him for what he is. A casual booty call. She is trying to make him be what he is not and that frustrates her.

 

[calicolombia69]

Wife has had a casual relationship for 18months now. Though they fucked on the very 1st night, the guy has always been adept at keeping her at a distance. Great bull with a great dick. She has wanted it to become more of a formal affair. But from the bleachers, I can see that he has always found ways to stall her.

She is always having to almost plead for a date or sex. He is always busy or too tired. Seldom do they see each other more than once a week; if that. He is fine to have an argument and not see her all thru the holidays.

We both agree to the obvious: dump him! But 1, its so hard to find other guys that equal him in the bedroom or 2 they are flakes. So its either Mr. full-of-himself or the massager. That, I think, makes it worse. He sees that she keeps going back to him. Her tits engorge whenever she gets confirmation that she will see him. Not to mention her 52yr old pussy: as sticky as a 20yr old!

I have said to her to just take him for what he is. A casual booty call. She is trying to make him be what he is not and that frustrates her.

She will actually see him tonight after being ghosted over the holidays. Meaning no Xmas lunch, no present, nada. I would expect this from a silly 20yr old with no self esteem who is desperate for cock. But my wife does have other available suitors and willing cocks. She is very attractive with fake tts and all. its just that this guy makes her cum like she was 20!. He is one of the very few she sucks and swallows in all her 36 years of sex life. She is 52 so you can subtract...
Even her slutty girlfriends vote for a dump. But she keeps going back...

 

[Teddy Long]

She will actually see him tonight after being ghosted over the holidays. Meaning no Xmas lunch, no present, nada. I would expect this from a silly 20yr old with no self esteem who is desperate for cock. But my wife does have other available suitors and willing cocks. She is very attractive with fake tts and all. its just that this guy makes her cum like she was 20!. He is one of the very few she sucks and swallows in all her 36 years of sex life. She is 52 so you can subtract...
Even her slutty girlfriends vote for a dump. But she keeps going back...

Can you dm me

 

[Stevens4fun]

Best to just back away, and let him come to her. If she chases him she's encouraging more of the same treatment. We ran into a similar situation years ago, - my wife reached a point where she really needed him. He was uncomfortable. We found that always worked better for her to at least be on a conversational basis with a couple of other guys who had expressed interest or her ex. She loved her could not live with him but in the bedroom he was the real deal, she said.

 

[calicolombia69]

Best to just back away, and let him come to her. If she chases him she's encouraging more of the same treatment. We ran into a similar situation years ago, - my wife reached a point where she really needed him. He was uncomfortable. We found that always worked better for her to at least be on a conversational basis with a couple of other guys who had expressed interest or her ex. She loved her could not live with him but in the bedroom he was the real deal, she said.

Mine is 100% aware how he uses her. She has given more than she has received: times, gifts, gas and tolls. She is already over there tonight; despite him cancelling dinner out. Some excuse about accounts hacked so he has no money. She still went over and probably ordered food on her (our) card).

He had invited her for Thanksgiving lunch. then that morning tells her she cant come because his ...... wants to make some private announcement to the family. Then invites her for Xmas lunch. We are hispanic so we celebrate 24th eve. Same deal; last minute he cancelled her out. Has she no dignity? She huffs and puffs for a few weeks but they are soon chatting again.

He has promised a beach vacation. That was 2 summers ago.... I feel sorry for her at times but nobody is pressuring her to go over. Not like the younger years where I was so desperate to be cucked. Im 56 and calmer now.
The sex is great and so are my creampies. Doesnt hurt that she keeps going back. I just wish a good replacement would show up. SO many flakes... which is why he doesnt get thrown off the island!