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Approaching the one year here of sharing my desire with my wife...
31 and 32 yo means very young couple 🙂
I think this is a good age for swinging not for cuckolding.
Good solution is 3some mmf. You provide her with good oral sex, other man could provide great vaginal sex... It is nearly the same feeling when having 3some as when being a cuck and moreover you could watch the best pron movie ever: the one with her acting 🙂
My advise: find a reliable man you both trust and move to 3some in a gentle manner.
I think this is a good age for swinging not for cuckolding.
Good solution is 3some mmf. You provide her with good oral sex, other man could provide great vaginal sex... It is nearly the same feeling when having 3some as when being a cuck and moreover you could watch the best pron movie ever: the one with her acting 🙂
My advise: find a reliable man you both trust and move to 3some in a gentle manner.
Thanks for clarification
I strongly believe that women need love, respect and safety/comfort. Suggesting her to blow a guy could decrease her self esteem, she could be afraid of being judged as cheap. But encouraging her to have full sex with someone means that she is adorable, she is wanted, desired.
Nothing I suggested to my wife for my pure pleasure (egocentric) was successful. On the contrary when telling her to do something which was 99% pleasing her - she accepted ... 1% because I enjoyed it and the rest because made her feel more sexually fulfilled and more complex.
Example is "I'd like to have a 3some for you darling, for you to feel two cocks, four hands, two tongues providing waves of orgasms..." Is ok but "I'd like you to jerk a guy while I watch" is not that appealing to women... To some women yes, but not for majority 🙂
I strongly believe that women need love, respect and safety/comfort. Suggesting her to blow a guy could decrease her self esteem, she could be afraid of being judged as cheap. But encouraging her to have full sex with someone means that she is adorable, she is wanted, desired.
Nothing I suggested to my wife for my pure pleasure (egocentric) was successful. On the contrary when telling her to do something which was 99% pleasing her - she accepted ... 1% because I enjoyed it and the rest because made her feel more sexually fulfilled and more complex.
Example is "I'd like to have a 3some for you darling, for you to feel two cocks, four hands, two tongues providing waves of orgasms..." Is ok but "I'd like you to jerk a guy while I watch" is not that appealing to women... To some women yes, but not for majority 🙂
Great! Dressing sexy is one of the best way to make her feel comfortable with men gazing, wanting her, approaching her. But the most important is her to see your feed back, your reaction to others eyes eating her body ... To my wife was a huge lap forward when she fully understood that I am turned on when she is nude on the beach with many men staring at her, when she goes out with a deep clevage amd men look intense to her toys, when she wears short skirts and friends notice her pussy under (no panties)... It is a team work for you and her how to show herself as a hotwife and you as supporting husband looking for partners
Talked to my lady about the subject for 4 years before she finally made her first move on it. I’d always talk to her about how hot it’d be and compliment her and dirty talk about me watching her during sex. I’d use her dildo on her and ask her if she’d like having another guy while she’s giving me oral and such. After some time she then woukdninitiate the dirty talk herself and really began to take it into her own and really had fun with it for a while. And now today she’s currently on her 4th guy. And we both love it. Patience and consistency. Don’t be pushy with it. Make it as fun and as enjoyable as possible.
Her thoughts may change on that with time as well. Just keep making it as fun and as enjoyable as you can. Maybe even bring up guys that she thinks are attractive. Maybe someone you both personally know, maybe a co worker or whoever really. Play with idea of her and whoever she finds attractive and she’ll envision the fun of it too and she’ll want to imagine that being a reality. Especially because you’ve given her the green light already.
My hubby was after me for 2 years to do this. NEVER in a million years did I think I would do this (let alone enjoy it)
It''s been 3 years now of having 2 lovers, both extremely well hung (9"and VERY thick) with great bodies and personalities to match.
I'm in heaven !!
Try showing her some "shared wife" porn when your in bed, see how that goes.
It''s been 3 years now of having 2 lovers, both extremely well hung (9"and VERY thick) with great bodies and personalities to match.
I'm in heaven !!
Try showing her some "shared wife" porn when your in bed, see how that goes.
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