Verification before meeting

[cjiggler]

This is more of a Question and answer all in one. Since my wife and I often do MFM and there are just so many FAKE people out there, I have a little something I do to verify they are real and not doing a bait and switch. I direct them to send me a selfie of them self standing in front of some common thing like a fridge, bed, walmart holding up x number of fingers and I will do the same. This verifies they are real and what they currently look like.
Does anyone else have any ideas that they use to verify people are real and who they say they are?

 

[compassionatedom]

This is more of a Question and answer all in one. Since my wife and I often do MFM and there are just so many FAKE people out there, I have a little something I do to verify they are real and not doing a bait and switch. I direct them to send me a selfie of them self standing in front of some common thing like a fridge, bed, walmart holding up x number of fingers and I will do the same. This verifies they are real and what they currently look like.
Does anyone else have any ideas that they use to verify people are real and who they say they are?

I've done the some similar things for the same reason. In a semi-related episode, I was having a video chat with a girl in the philipines, but the conversation was via text, while we had "eyes on". And I realized the girl was actually a video loop, with the chat timed to her actions. so when I said you have something on your cheek, wipe it off, "she" couldn't and we had technical difficulties

 

[cjiggler]

I've done the some similar things for the same reason. In a semi-related episode, I was having a video chat with a girl in the philipines, but the conversation was via text, while we had "eyes on". And I realized the girl was actually a video loop, with the chat timed to her actions. so when I said you have something on your cheek, wipe it off, "she" couldn't and we had technical difficulties

Hahaha ya those were men in South Africa. Watch Trafficked with Mariana van Zeller How dating scams work.

 

[Couple4MFM]

ALL sites are full of fake profiles, I have heard some real horror stories from guys we have met. It seems like the guys have a much more difficult time with this than couples or ladies but it still happens. I have my husband do the verification on anybody we elect to meet online.

We use SLS for finding most guys, I only look at single men who have at least three certifications from other users, and then he looks at the profiles of the couples or ladies who gave the guy a cert to make sure they are real. Guys must have pictures and then they must be willing to text hubs and send a pic of themselves that is unique and unedited. Usually, it is a handwritten sign with my real name written and the date.

One guy bragged about how big his cock is and since we have met guys who over-exaggerate their endowment I had him poke a hole in the middle of a full page for his penis to stick through while hard and then write my name and birthday on the paper. I loved it. And, BTW, he was definitely "real" and actually larger than he said.

 

[jw_kk]

Most of the time, we do at least one, usually two or three video sessions with an encounter partner candidate as part of our screening/vetting process.

It's easy for a guy to fake stuff, or use old photos - very difficult to fake video. It also gives us a chance to see if the guy can mentally, as well as visually stimulate KK.

 

[ep46wksp]

This is more of a Question and answer all in one. Since my wife and I often do MFM and there are just so many FAKE people out there, I have a little something I do to verify they are real and not doing a bait and switch. I direct them to send me a selfie of them self standing in front of some common thing like a fridge, bed, walmart holding up x number of fingers and I will do the same. This verifies they are real and what they currently look like.
Does anyone else have any ideas that they use to verify people are real and who they say they are?

todays newspaper, holding a sign with their name and the date on it