Update

I've only occasionally posted -- me an my wife aren't as involved in lifestyle as most here. As I posted late last year, wife and I were raised as conservative Catholics and met at college and had very normal sex life, but in summer of 2023 she admitted to me that while at a friend's housewarming party one afternoon, she met a man, (bit older than us) flirted with him and they ended up in upstairs bedroom where, as she put it, "he made love to me."

She told me she was surprised by her behavior, but told me how while they were flirting he told her that talking to her was very exciting and in hallway with no one else around, he undid his pants and she was "impressed by the size of it," (as she said). And, then apparently within a few minutes they were in bedroom where she "spread my legs and gave myself to him."

Anyway, that was my original post, and as I went on to post, they continued to see each other once or twice a month for rest of 2023. I had the usual mixed feelings, excitement but also found it very upsetting. Really it was all very strange, since neither of us had much sexual experience before getting together in college.

Well that relationship wound down, but not before I met him and did see his hard penis, which was clearly bigger than mine.

Earlier this summer she met another guy and enjoyed a couple of trysts with him, although I never did meet him, it was strange to know she was seeing him.

Now, she has told me that her girfriend's know that she has slept with other men, which is bit embarrasing to me.
 
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I have a few questions: Have you ever asked if you can join them, just to watch? If not, and you aren't discouraging her from sleeping with other men, are you free to sleep with other women?
 
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