We sent a few pictures to a guy my wife thinks is hot, but thinks he is kinda annoying, so it would work out good, He liked the pictures. But then said he won’t lick her pussy, and that was it for her, turned right off.. it’s hard to find someoneThought we found someone, didn’t turn out, need tips
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We sent a few pictures to a guy my wife thinks is hot, but thinks he is kinda annoying, so it would work out good, He liked the pictures. But then said he won’t lick her pussy, and that was it for her, turned right off.. it’s hard to find someone
NancyJo
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That's a typical problem on this site. The guys are just all bark. If they find out a real meetup could happen it's crickets. I checked out your media. As a basically straight (bi-curious) lady I would have no problem with either of you. I'm sure my hubby wouldn't either.
I agree with nancyjo. This is not the site to find guys to play with. Appears less than 5% of people on here actuay are involved in the lifestyle. That's fine if you are living vicariously through the real stags, hotwives and cucks on here but you would be hard pressed to actually get someone to show up.
All I know is I've been on here for going on 4 yrs ... And , I would love to meet others of interest . It's just never Really works out , either distance is a issue or the ones that advertise are not serious themselves . So I would say it works both ways ... So what's it take to really find those of true interest ? Maybe , I am wrong , just know I am trying with all that I have to become part of this lifestyle , so maybe I am approaching things wrong ? All I know is it never seems to work out .... To me it seems like there really needs to be common ground and willingness , on both parties but I think the willing needs to give the newbies a real chance and vise versa .... To me it's the common ground and willingness to see what's possible ???
There are many assholes out there so you have to learn to weed them out. Why dont you email we and maybe we can arrange. something I have been with several cpls most long term relationships ..... Tom202054@gmail.com
It takes some effort, for sure. I probably spent upwards of 4 months on aff talking to bots and picture collectors before having one initial meet up, and then a few more months finding people we liked.
Our best experiences have always been lifestyle events.
Our best experiences have always been lifestyle events.
Kandjfun
Couple
It is very frustrating! I thought the hardest part would be getting my wife to be open to this lifestyle, but honestly the hardest part is finding decent guys that know what this lifestyle is about. Most guys are just looking for a quick hookup, ons, and another notch on there belt. There are those who say they are okay with hubby being there, but once they get their nut off, they decide they don’t really like the couple dynamic. There are some good ones out there and we have had some really fun experiences, but weeding through all the bullshit ones can be exhausting, especially the ones who ghost afterwards.
I'm afraid there are lots of timewasters in the swinging world, we used to advertise for singles and couples in contact mags before the days of the internet. We would get replies and chats on the phone only for lots of no shows when it was time to meet but then again we have had some good meets with genuine sexy folks.
I like your ink. I only have to so far and I started as an old guy....hmm!
Please tell me about the meaning what those time stamps mean. Do you have any other ink?
I believe you might be chilly there too...lol May we chat and learn about each other< I would love to get to know you .😘😊
Call me Mitch
Thank you for following me Tom. I hope to keep you interested. I am in the suburbs of Chicago ....I am at hornyseaturtle89@gmail.com
If I may chime in on your conversation with Upland, I think she is very desirable I wish I could see more of their profile, perhaps you could ask them to DM me and grant me access to their profile
Yes there are many assholes out there on all the sites, not just here. I have an excitement for a particular lady and she says her hubby is ok with her solo or together. Unfortunately, she then went ghost on me . She chats other folks but never me...breaks my heart on many levels I am just wishing to find a GF to play with and enjoy each other.
Mitch
I'd like to chime in here.
I am not one to be insincere regarding getting together and becoming part of the LS. I have my reason that would be revealed in confidence. There are many who enjoy the diatribe but as has been said, they never follow thru. This applies to both sides. There are those that have requirements that are beyond attainable or they tell you that you may not be good enuff to be part of the LS. I just want to meet someone to be able to play with occasionally. To bring passion to their life, to have passion in my life and to just enjoy each other's company. I am beyond the perfect looking woman. Also beyond the under 50ish crowd. If you enjoy intercourse, have a sense of humor, maybe do crazy things in the cold, I want to get to know you! Its not a quick process either. I met my first couple and it was eight months before we met F2F. But I will never ever forget her face at the airport when i saw her at baggage claim...my heart lept! Her hubby was like meeting an old friend again as well. One year on a tough LS app, lots of insults, many ghosts and only one result to play adult games. I even went to a nudist resort they have a condo at! Not all of it is sex, much of it is just compatibility. When it is there > fireworks! When it is not there, then you have to suck it up and excuse yourself gracefully . Two years in and I love both of these folks like I have known them all my life. If we can become chat friends, I will be respectful of your time and feelings, I only ask the same in return.
I noticed that your profile has restrictions may I be granted access? A back stage pass if you will. I will share my email here in good faith HornySeaTurtle88@gmail.com. I am 65ish and live near a big lake in Illinois, PS. I travel
Call me Mitch
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There are too many would be bulls who are all about themselves and that's not going to work. Keep looking!
Our history was...quite a few times with a guy we know, we'd only do e this with him.
We were out of town in our hotel bar. We were not thinking about sex fun at all, we are not swingers at all, we've never gone "looking" for fun. We were in the bar having a dri.nk, we struck up a conversation with a guy, we do this often with whoever is nearby. Men, women, couples, whatever, it's just how we are.
The guy was super easy to chat with, we all ordered another dri.nk, conversation was great. Wife kinda let it out that we like sexy fun. They started to flirt a little, this has happened befor, not a big deal. He went to the boys room, wife asked if we can invite him to our room. He returned, I let him know, he suggested his room. We were finishing our dri.nks, wife was VERY into the whole deal. She told him we had done this befor and we both enjoy it. She told him that I like to watch, she likes me watching and how her and I liked the sex after. I was blown away on how candid she was with him. He was cool with everything. In the elevator she kissed him, she was very turned on. We were in his room, they were making out, she took off her top and bra, he got naked, she was kneeling and sucking him. He looked at me and said I should leave. She stood up, grabbed her clothes and we left. Was a HUGE buzz .......
That was our one and only experience with a stranger.
We've had numerous bar strangers absolutely destroy a fun time by talking. As a man I find this so frustrating, like man, all you have to do is stop talking now.
G needs black
Couple
Agreed, T/F. every Bull is over whelming to everyone and they are just annoying as they drone on about a giant tool. Just stop being so smug. Smug is not sexy ever.
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