The Pros of caging the man

I guess it depends on where your relationship is going. If it is management of him, then the times caged will amplify his feelings and when out of the cage then he will have intense moments, if you milk him.

However, if you plan on total denial, then the rewards have to be mental, not physical, and that means that you have to work hard to ensure that he embraces his new role
 
Good point, I am not - at the moment - planning on total denial but we will see, but what do you mean by 'rewards have to be mental' ? I really can't imagine what would that be. Sorry for the beginners questions 🙂