I asked this in another thread several months ago but it was possibly off-topic for that thread.. I'm still curious.. What do you and hubby do as you tell him the details? I'm curious about both because I've been the "other guy" but not the hubby, and I think it must be like being told a highly erotic story as on Literotica but made intensely exciting by being real about the wife just returned who is now right there.. Describe what you do! Do you stroke him or not, whispering in his ear? If not, does he get to stroke himself instead or is that forbidden too?