Summary of our experience

[apella34]

Hello

 

[Sotiubitor]

Hello, your wife is a very attractive woman. Your story is quite special...
I do not think she is a hot wife. Yet.
And I think she doesn't want to be a hotwire. I think she wants to enjoy moments with other men but in her own delicate style. I mean that she maybe needs a soft intimacy, trust and liaison. Not abrupt sex oriented meetings or relationships... Maybe she needs connection with a man, some sort of feelings developing. It would be better to discuss openly the matter of feelings. To see what you dream and what she likes with others...

 

[apella34]

Thank you for your reply.

 

[Sotiubitor]

I see. It is comforting that she did not need sentimental involvement with others, it means you have a stable marriage both of wanting to keep...
Sexual confidence is important to her, obviously she is wrong not considering herself attractive...
On the other hand hotwire means married woman being free for sex with other and with her husband's consent... She is a free wife having the support of her husband to test more than one man in bed.
Based on our experience it is very important for both of you if you could join her during her experiments. This way she would feel your support and you would be closer. But this is a topic to be decided by the couple not by readers 🙂

 

[apella34]

I see. It is comforting that she did not need sentimental involvement with others, it means you have a stable marriage both of wanting to keep...
Sexual confidence is important to her, obviously she is wrong not considering herself attractive...
On the other hand hotwire means married woman being free for sex with other and with her husband's consent... She is a free wife having the support of her husband to test more than one man in bed.
Based on our experience it is very important for both of you if you could join her during her experiments. This way she would feel your support and you would be closer. But this is a topic to be decided by the couple not by readers 🙂

Thanks for the valuable input. We will keep all in mind...

 

[verkitwme]

I think she likes the sexual "excitement" but not sure if she wants some of the baggage that can come with it.

 

[apella34]

I think she likes the sexual "excitement" but not sure if she wants some of the baggage that can come with it.

That is true. Thanks.

 

[apella34]

She is a hottie! Very fortunate now that she has taken the plunge and let another guy fuck her. She has to find the circumstances that turn her on and follow those to whatever conclusions she desires. At least you don't have that whole psychological issue of her being married and no other cock has been inside her. Now that she's been fucked by another guy she is unencumbered by marriage vows. We recommend a quality lifestyle site where she or the both of you can find out about lifestyle events and find other guys/couples to meet and chat with. There are some great quality single guys on some of the sites and if you aren't in to meeting a guy from online at least you can find a swinger venue or parties to attend....there is generally NO PRESSURE to play at those parties but she can meet hotwives, their husbands and single guys. That may be thrill enough for her and might entice her to dip her toes further into the hotwife pool. Here's a positive for you though....you are now a cuckold! By the dictionary description a cuckold is merely a man who's wife has had sex with another man. Congrats!

HW

Thank you for your comments and advices.

 

[hottcalicpl]

stunning lady!

 

[2wheel]

Thank you for your reply. I also think that she is not a real hotwife yet. When we discuss openly, she tells me that she has no interest developing feelings with other man. She only enjoys the sexy adventures with them. I feel that she is not confident with herself and never accepts that she is attactive. Her experience with the other guy helped her only a little.

Always remember, it's only sex, IT'S ONLY SEX. If she wants feelings she has you, her husband.