Suggestions?

[Bernie84]

Wife is slowly warming to fucking another man while I watch or maybe join in.
Would appreciate any suggestions that I could message her to see how she responds, subtle hints etc.
Will post her replies for anyone interested to see how close she is?

 

[Jeanswatcher]

What is her fantasy, have you enquired if she would prefer someone you or she knows or would she prefer a stranger.

In my experience if either of you know a suitable candidate thats the best way to start this off.

 

[Bernie84]

What is her fantasy, have you enquired if she would prefer someone you or she knows or would she prefer a stranger.

In my experience if either of you know a suitable candidate thats the best way to start this off.

When we have sex and I ask her if she’d wants another big dick she replies “yes”.
Then afterwards she most of the time goes cold on the matter. So in the heat of the moment she does want it.
One night not so long ago we had a few drinks and signed up to a swinger site, we were inundated with messages but the problem was trying to separate the genuine people from the fakes. She then requested we delete the account.
She knows I’d love to see her fuck another man but blows hot and cold on the idea.
She is very flirtatious around other men especially after a few drinks and she can be real slutty in bed. We’ve used toys etc. This is to imitate a threesome or more and she can get really into it.
The issue is afterwards she usually goes cold on the matter and I know then not to speak about it.
I’m looking for some hints, tips and suggestions I could use to have a better approach.

 

[Bernie84]

What is her fantasy, have you enquired if she would prefer someone you or she knows or would she prefer a stranger.

In my experience if either of you know a suitable candidate thats the best way to start this off.

I’d prefer someone we don’t know but get to know and build trust.
If she had anyone in mind then I think I’d go along with it.
I’ve enquired about her fantasy but she hasn’t told me. Although she has told me she’s had a threesome in the past and had sex on a bus with an ex.
She can be very naughty especially when she’s aroused.