Just a suggestion. Try putting some photos of your wife/gf into a wallet and go into a crowded bar or pub. Have a few drinks then leave without picking up your wallet. Leave the wallet in a prominent place so that it will be found easily. I am suggesting this from an experience my exwife suggested. We picked a local pub, well she did, and we went back later that night to see if the wallet had been handed in, which it had. We continued to play pool in the pub and I noticed the males around the table were all whispering to each other as she took her shot. I couldn't wait to get her home.
Here are 3 of the 5 photos that were in the wallet