It actually happens the other way around. When he is with her he wants her to be focused on him. If she is really getting into me he will sometimes pull her hair to get her to look away or cover her mouth if she is saying stuff to me. If he feels the need to get real alpha about it he will fuck her in the ass which is something she has never let me get away with. She seems to get into it now. Its actually kind of new for them too I believe but you see where you rank in these situations for sure. I probably could get anal if I really persisted or just went for it. I never thought I'd see the day that she be OK with it.