Should I let him change her

She’s been seeing a guy for a while who now wants more control
Having been enjoying this lifestyle for 40 years I would say that it is perfectly normal and should be expected. Stacey had lovers over the years who wanted more control as their relationship matured and their bonding became stronger. I could hardly argue since he was the one giving her pleasures of which I was incapable. We always communicated and talked about the amount of control - usually in terms of how much was I willing to relinquish to make her happy. The control I relinquished was never so much that our relationship suffered.
 
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We cannot advise you on that. That is something you will have to have a feel for yourself. I’ve heard of people letting the bull take control and it worked out. But you have to know what you want.
Our advise would be what we would do but that doesn’t mean that you should do what someone else would do.