Should i encourage her?.

[Goodhubby7]

Im a long time cuck wannabe, I've Never admitted it to my wife but have dropped some hints.
Since having kids (10 years ago) our sex life went downhill fast.
She dosent like to talk about sex so it's a tricky situation.
My wife is very intelligent, runs her own successful business, is very attractive and fit and is quite bossy and has to have things her way.
She is aware I'm quite submissive but disent know I want to be a cuck.
About 3 or 4 years ago I suspected she has cheated but never found proof. This sent my cuckold desires into overdrive. I tried talking about sex and she admitted she still wanted sex like any normal woman etc.
I told her my sex drive had really dropped off and so it was probably my fault we hardly ever had sex now. I have mentioned this a few times since and apologised and said its not fair on her. She has never really responded, blamed.me, questioned it or tried to defend me or make me feel better.
Apart from no sex life we have quite a good marriage and get on very well. I want to find a way to put the idea in her head that she deserves to be satisfied sexually and if I can't do it then she should be allowed to have sex with others. If the idea is hers she would likely go for it but if I suggest it I think it would be an instant no. She is very stubborn and would dig her heels in if I mentioned it again.
Question is how do I get her to think about it?.

 

[tego]

Since you have not mentioned the fetish, you may have an opportunity to progressively push your wife into it without having to acknowledge it in the first place; for example, search for excuses to mention other men; you can try porn, even lie and say that a therapist advised to tryout somethings since you have your sex drive issues, I believe your chances improve when you avoid explicitly mentioning the fetish. Also being more open may help with that one suspicion you have.

 

[Ocguy]

Definitely encourage her. I would suggest she use toys and if she rather have the real thing start with a hall pass. And if you suspect cheating, more than likely she is. Good luck.

 

[southfly]

Im a long time cuck wannabe, I've Never admitted it to my wife but have dropped some hints.
Since having kids (10 years ago) our sex life went downhill fast.
She dosent like to talk about sex so it's a tricky situation.
My wife is very intelligent, runs her own successful business, is very attractive and fit and is quite bossy and has to have things her way.
She is aware I'm quite submissive but disent know I want to be a cuck.
About 3 or 4 years ago I suspected she has cheated but never found proof. This sent my cuckold desires into overdrive. I tried talking about sex and she admitted she still wanted sex like any normal woman etc.
I told her my sex drive had really dropped off and so it was probably my fault we hardly ever had sex now. I have mentioned this a few times since and apologised and said its not fair on her. She has never really responded, blamed.me, questioned it or tried to defend me or make me feel better.
Apart from no sex life we have quite a good marriage and get on very well. I want to find a way to put the idea in her head that she deserves to be satisfied sexually and if I can't do it then she should be allowed to have sex with others. If the idea is hers she would likely go for it but if I suggest it I think it would be an instant no. She is very stubborn and would dig her heels in if I mentioned it again.
Question is how do I get her to think about it?.

sounds reasonable. although I think he's already cheating on you

 

[Funtofukurwife]

First encourage her to dress sexy or revealing clothes when going out so she'll notice men cking her out also tell her how sexy she looks and mention when u see a guy cking her out let her know. you can also play little games with her like let her know when a guy is cking her out and you can say and he looks like your type or say he doesn't look like your type that way she might start to think about him questioning what do u know about her type . Or if you notice a big bulg on him mention how she would like his big bulge good luck it took me a whole yr to get my wife to try a mfm

 

[Goodhubby7]

sounds reasonable. although I think he's already cheating on you

Im intrigued, why do you think she is already cheating?.