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Bargirls don’t want work in bars. Life is hard in the Philippines. They are there to provide for their families. Not by choice but by necessity for lack of opportunities to get out of poverty. I lived in the Philippines for years. I met many young girls in their 20’s working in bars. I befriended a mamasan who could see I was a stand up guy and she would connect me with province girls she did’t want to work in the bars. I would pay them to stay with me so they had money to send home. They would grow attached to me and the lifestyle I provided.Unless you go live there for a while you will never comprehend the poverty that exists. living in dirt floor nippa huts without electricity or plumbing ...... on bamboo mats. Fetching water in bucket to carry home and cooking over a fire made on sticks. But the culture there is amazing. They are a happy people that want to be loyal and honest. So don’t be quick to judge until you understand the culture. The woman I chose to marry in older than the bargirls I was seeing since she is older and wiser willing to serve a mans every need and desire for life. We have a 30+ years age gap. We have been together over 3 years.