Not saying you specifically, but too many men ask at the wrong time or in a way women sense as leading to judgement. [USER=78247]@Loridan[/USER] said his lady talked and he wasn't happy what he was hearing.... she learned right there to say no more. The best way is actually to tell her you understand why she, and women in general, won't talk about it with men. Then tell her why you're curious-to grow closer to understanding her sexuality, to share the enjoyment of reliving the experience with her, to be thrilled by her bad ass self.
This is why women go to the ladies' room with gf, to talk about things they don't want their men to hear.
