I have to ask...how many times you been with them? Hubby always there watching? He ever join or take a turn? Where you all get together, motel, their place, yours? Aprox ages? Do they both get off on the whole thing? Him or her more into the meeting? How long does it all last, 20 min, 2 hours? Are you their first?
We have a guy we see, most always at our place, been to his twice. 99% of our fun has been with him, one other guy once, another couple once. I'm always either watching or taking a turn. Were mid 50s, he's 34. It's a damn fun night fir all of us but I'd say my wife is REALLY into the whole thing but it's damn exciting for me aslo. Been nights it's 90 minutes other nights it's 4 hours. It's a comfy, relaxing and exciting night for all 3 of us. We don't use rubbers.
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