One for the wives.

So I totally know this is irrational and it’s something that I deal with but I wanted to know if other wives have the same issue. I have 2 boyfriends, I get to ...... with who I want whenever I like. I have weekends away with my boyfriends and basically totally freedom of my sex life. This obviously applies to my husband but it’s not something he takes advantage of very often, we do lots of stuff together (which I totally love) but and here is the the but when he does go on a date I get totally and irrational jealousy. It kills me! I obviously try not to show it and I would never stop him from doing or seeing anyone, but it kills me. I have asked him loads of times is it the fact that it makes me feel the way I do is it why he doesn’t see many people on his own and he has assured me it isn’t but I think it must be on his mind.
I want him to have the same freedom of me, I really do! I think I need help 😂
 
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So I totally know this is irrational and it’s something that I deal with but I wanted to know if other wives have the same issue. I have 2 boyfriends, I get to ...... with who I want whenever I like. I have weekends away with my boyfriends and basically totally freedom of my sex life. This obviously applies to my husband but it’s not something he takes advantage of very often, we do lots of stuff together (which I totally love) but and here is the the but when he does go on a date I get totally and irrational jealousy. It kills me! I obviously try not to show it and I would never stop him from doing or seeing anyone, but it kills me. I have asked him loads of times is it the fact that it makes me feel the way I do is it why he doesn’t see many people on his own and he has assured me it isn’t but I think it must be on his mind.
I want him to have the same freedom of me, I really do! I think I need help 😂
I think he could very well be telling the truth. My wife and I have an open relationship in theory but it’s very one sided in practise. It’s nice now and then to have sex with another woman but (with one exception) it doesn’t happen very often. The fact is I get more excited by her fucking other men than I do from fucking other women. So I’m guessing your husband is the same and he’s very happy with the arrangement as it stands. If you were asking the question on a swinging site you might get a different answer but on here, I think I’m probably in the majority. So I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Would he not say if he wasn’t happy with how things are?
James