on the fence about what i want

Hi,
I have been with my wife for over 7 years and we are both mid and late 40s. I cannot stop thinking about her with another man. To be fair when we first started dating we were not exclusive for the first few months. 2 years in she asks me to back-up her phone and transfer her contacts. In the photo/video back-up is a short video of her fucking her ex bf around the time we started dating. She had long forgot that it was in there and with her phone dead she wanted her photos and contacts. Without being to graphic it was about 10-12 seconds of her really enjoying herself. Anyway, fast forward a few years and we are at a downtown party, she is dancing up a storm, dressed sweet but sexy, heels and mini dress, etc and guys are hitting on her. She keeps leaving the dance floor and coming back to me and upset that she just can't dance with the girls without being hit on. I told her its ok and its just dancing just keep your panties on and have fun. She laughed at me and that was it. We left. later she asked me if it bothered me that guys were hitting on her and I told her just the opposite. I don't mind guys appreciating her. She asked me to elaborate and I did. I told her that its hot when a guy looks at her like he wants her. That is all. Now,, in my head i see her getting fucked like I saw in the video I downloaded from her phone. Not dancing in a bar or at a party. I see her fully enjoying getting fucked by another guy. Not sure where to go from here. At a new years party a mutual friend gave her a huge hug, hands wandered too low and pulled up her skirt some. My wife pulled it down real quick and then pushed him away. He came up to me a few minutes later ...... and apologized and said he couldn't help it. My wife is so fucking hot and I'm a lucky guy. I gave him a brief warning since he was very ...... and told him, "hand off" She told me it wasn't his hands that bothered her, it was him grinding on her when he hugged her.. Part of me loved that!
 
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She has said many times she "doesn't share!" but not since i first told her that I like it when guys hit on her.
Well what i did was while having sex with my wife I'll slip in a few "talks" like "I wish this was another cock fucking u" or while she's sucking my cock ill say " would u suck another cock better than this".... It paid off eventually
 
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Well what i did was while having sex with my wife I'll slip in a few "talks" like "I wish this was another cock fucking u" or while she's sucking my cock ill say " would u suck another cock better than this".... It paid off eventually
i would be open letting her give a bj to someone. Put a limit on what happens and see what happens.
 
When I was with one of my ex's, we used to play games or dares in night clubs. One of which was that she would go up dancing on her own and see how many guys she could get to hit on her. Once she got a guy or guys hitting on her she would go to the loo and bring me back her panties. I would then give her tasks to do and off she would trot just far enough into the dance crowd for me to see her and she would do as I asked her. This could be to feel his cock by dancing with her back to the guy or simply kissing him and getting a grip of his cock. If her dress or skirt was very short (and it often was) I would tell her to get him to make her cum on the dance floor. A bit more tricky but she managed it a few times. If it got too much she would come back to me and kiss me openly that way her target would realise she was out for fun. The point is that it was a huge turn on to see her being pulled to the point of going outside to fuck the guy or guys, although we did go that far a few times but she always came and asked first
 
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When I was with one of my ex's, we used to play games or dares in night clubs. One of which was that she would go up dancing on her own and see how many guys she could get to hit on her. Once she got a guy or guys hitting on her she would go to the loo and bring me back her panties. I would then give her tasks to do and off she would trot just far enough into the dance crowd for me to see her and she would do as I asked her. This could be to feel his cock by dancing with her back to the guy or simply kissing him and getting a grip of his cock. If her dress or skirt was very short (and it often was) I would tell her to get him to make her cum on the dance floor. A bit more tricky but she managed it a few times. If it got too much she would come back to me and kiss me openly that way her target would realise she was out for fun. The point is that it was a huge turn on to see her being pulled to the point of going outside to fuck the guy or guys, although we did go that far a few times but she always came and asked first
some very good ideas. She does dance with guys or girls on the dance floor. I may ask for her panties one night and double dare her to go dance some more.