We actually started working out together based on your suggestion and we’ve both lost some weight. Baby steps in the right direction. She wants to have a threesome with the fucking machine, if parenthood ever gives us time and her energy for sex!
To this end I am doing a lot more housework, doing morning tasks and inviting her ...... in whenever she wants, and agreed to do any task she asks immediately and without complaint, and she likes that. So as she feels healthier and rested, hopefully hornier.