Newbie. Explain cuckolding to me.

[MattB]

So this will sound like a really novice post but that’s because it is. If I get the terms wrong I apologize in advance.

A little over a year ago I hooked up with a friend and his girlfriend which was supposed to be one night only but here we are and it’s still going although it’s changed the way it’s worked a few times. It started as just threesomes, then it went to him just watching for the most part and joining in later, and for the last 6 months I’ve only ever seen her alone, she frequently even stays over at my place.

Now they’ve approached me to be the bull in their cuckold journey. How is this even different to what we were doing when he watched? Is it just that her and I need to humiliate him? Some porn I’ve seen on the subject involves bi play, they haven’t mentioned that but is that an expected thing? Other stuff I’ve seen involves him cleaning up (is that right??).

Sorry to be so naive but this was just dropped on me. I’m sure we’ll sort out what we want when we talk but I just want to get a feeling before we do.

 

[GoodTimes40]

This is where I don’t think the terminology matter at all. Sometimes it’s useful but not here.

Ask them what they are looking for and what’s the end goal to their journey. They might not know so have your own ideas of what you want…its tough bc even in a m/f relationship sometimes we think the goal is casual dating but they get married bc they realized they wanted something different. Other people get married to be monogamous, but then realize they are bisexual and want to experiment. People change…

 

[Ht805cpl]

So this will sound like a really novice post but that’s because it is. If I get the terms wrong I apologize in advance.

A little over a year ago I hooked up with a friend and his girlfriend which was supposed to be one night only but here we are and it’s still going although it’s changed the way it’s worked a few times. It started as just threesomes, then it went to him just watching for the most part and joining in later, and for the last 6 months I’ve only ever seen her alone, she frequently even stays over at my place.

Now they’ve approached me to be the bull in their cuckold journey. How is this even different to what we were doing when he watched? Is it just that her and I need to humiliate him? Some porn I’ve seen on the subject involves bi play, they haven’t mentioned that but is that an expected thing? Other stuff I’ve seen involves him cleaning up (is that right??).

Sorry to be so naive but this was just dropped on me. I’m sure we’ll sort out what we want when we talk but I just want to get a feeling before we do.

Perhaps you should be talking to her or both in time as to what they expect in the relationship. The bull hotwife can take on many different directions or desires based on what everyone wants. The positive thing you have in the relationship is if it goes in a direction you do not want to go you can always walk away. My first thoughts are you should be happy to be banging your friends wife with or without him and he don’t seem to care. I share my wife with many men, mostly as a 3 some but there are times she wants to be alone with someone and I allow it. Talk to her about what she wants or expects and enjoy what you got!