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[sxybabyu]

hi all. 35/m with a hot 33 wife....sex life has gone down the tubes and she's not really willing to talk about it... looking for some advice as it's a bit of a long story. She's sub and is kinky, yet completely shut down...getting mixed signals

would love to get more into how I can get to the bottom of it if she won't open up.

thanks

 

[taurusbull25]

hi all. 35/m with a hot 33 wife....sex life has gone down the tubes and she's not really willing to talk about it... looking for some advice as it's a bit of a long story. She's sub and is kinky, yet completely shut down...getting mixed signals

would love to get more into how I can get to the bottom of it if she won't open up.

thanks

Wow, this is a tough one.

 

[sxybabyu]

yeah. I mean it could be as simple as she lost her sex drive.. I know she's had a couple of set backs in the last few years that made her doubt her body/esteem.

we are good partners, and if there is any desire for other stuff there, we can definitely overcome it.

 

[novathick]

Keep talking to her and ensure she hasn’t found someone else. Don’t get into sharing her thinking it will save the marriage. If the two of you had kids that could be a big factor into it because ...... changes from lust to having to love her.

 

[sxybabyu]

any suggestions on what to do or say? our marriage is solid either way, it's more about us deepening our passions.

 

[goodtogo]

yeah. I mean it could be as simple as she lost her sex drive.. I know she's had a couple of set backs in the last few years that made her doubt her body/esteem.

we are good partners, and if there is any desire for other stuff there, we can definitely overcome it.

Start looking at particular vitamins and herbs. If you haven't pissed her off, it sounds hormonal. Many women deal with this but thinks there is something else wrong with them. Might want to buy a near infrared light. Cost about 30 bucks. They thyroid plays a huge role. The infrared light balances the hormones in women, increases testosterone in men. I have studied natural remedies for years. I'm a bit older and My total T is 857 out of max of 900 and free is high. What I am doing works, and there are solutions for her too. I would suggest laying off the carbs. Near infrared incondesent 250 watt bulb 20 min a day. There is more if you would like to know. Good luck