First off, welcome! I hope this lifestyle gives you everything you're* after.
As for your question, yeah it's normal. One couple I was with started off with just showing her off to me. I was a Handyman, and the first couple times I came over she was in some skimpy outfit, showing off for me. That happened 2 or 3 times. Then it went in to getting a BJ. Then I was invited over just to hang out where I got another blow job. After the 4th or 5th time seeing them, I was invited over where she and I had sex. After 3 or 4 sessions, we fulfilled all their fantasies, and they haven't contacted me since. It was a ton of fun to be sure.
