My wife's been dreaming about black men.

I'm going to start off by stating that in no way am I a cuckold.

It seems lately that my wife has been having some pretty intense sexual dreams about some random black men she sees. This has happened 3 times now in the past month and every time she's woken up from the dream, started sucking my cock, which wakes me and then rides me until she can't go on anymore. Sometimes she's kept riding me well after I've cum and pretty much went limp.

The first time I asked her what got her all worked up she just told me to shut up and let her focus. It was afterwards that she told me about the dream.

The sex has been pretty intense and hot and honestly the thought of her dreaming about sex with black men is kind of hot.

Should I ask her if this is something she wants to happen in real life? If so how do I go about it?
 
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The whole "I had a dream" scenario does seem like a way to approach a discussion/declaration of some kind. It seems like a way to "blame" the thoughts as being involuntary and avoid the perception that her daytime thoughts aren't the issue.

If it were me, I'd tell her that you really enjoyed her being "worked up" but being told to "shut up" and let her focus left you confused. She needs to know that she doesn't need to hide anything from you. You don't want to be left to your own imagination. That could lead to undesired places. You'll end up with more anxiety if you are left in the dark. If you tell her that you thought it was kind of hot she may not feel the need to be so guarded about her dreams and desires.

This is just my observation and nothing more than that. You know your wife far better than myself or anyone else here.
 
I'm going to start off by stating that in no way am I a cuckold.

It seems lately that my wife has been having some pretty intense sexual dreams about some random black men she sees. This has happened 3 times now in the past month and every time she's woken up from the dream, started sucking my cock, which wakes me and then rides me until she can't go on anymore. Sometimes she's kept riding me well after I've cum and pretty much went limp.

The first time I asked her what got her all worked up she just told me to shut up and let her focus. It was afterwards that she told me about the dream.

The sex has been pretty intense and hot and honestly the thought of her dreaming about sex with black men is kind of hot.

Should I ask her if this is something she wants to happen in real life? If so how do I go about it?
If you're wife is dreaming about being fucked by a black man, I would suggest she is harbouring a desire to do it for real. The dream is making her so horny that she sucks your dick when she wakes up speaks volumes.

Accept it and discuss it with her, let her know that you are OK with it, because you obviously are.

My wife fantasised about being fucked by a black guy but there are very few black people living in my town. So when I applied and got accepted for employment in the Bahamas, Hannah was over the moon. Not just because we were going to live in the Bahamas, but also because the islands are populated with black people. She knew that finally she was going to fulfil her fantasy, and she did, lots of times.