My wife wants her first time with another man to be like a rape

[andysmith]

Yes I understand being picked up by strangers is always a risk, my man is always there to insure things don’t get crazy, but sometimes hard to distinguish the resistance from the no I really mean no. At lest with set up events a safe word can be established. My best times are when my man brings a friend I do not know home and he grabs me and asks his friend if he wants some pussy. I will squirm and try to resist but everyone knows the game. I love forced fucking or being tied up and he send someone to my bed to take me.

certainly safer that way but without the rush of real strangers. Because my wife has asked to be left to be used by stranger when things have got to real force she aomwtimes regrets at the time but still wants tp play the game again on subsequent bar trips

 

[Ht805cpl]

certainly safer that way but without the rush of real strangers. Because my wife has asked to be left to be used by stranger when things have got to real force she aomwtimes regrets at the time but still wants tp play the game again on subsequent bar trips

I understand the thrill she desires! I’ve done it and love it. Perhaps it is more the thrill of it could go wrong?

 

[andysmith]

I understand the thrill she desires! I’ve done it and love it. Perhaps it is more the thrill of it could go wrong?

yes

 

[Mendiak1991]

Hi there,

My wife is looking forward that I organize her first threesome. She is very submissive and would like the first time to happen in a hotel room, she wants to be fully naked, both hands to be tied on the corner of the bed and to be blindfolded. She wants me to open the door to the stranger I will select for her. She wants him to be tall, strong, good lover and with a big cock. She wants that we play with her and fuck her the way we want. She is really turned on by the idea that she will not be able to do anything until we are done with her. Do you think this is a rape fantasy of her?
Thank you in advance for your feeling/feedback.

Only works if we can cum in her and knock her up

 

[Lynnandhubby]

be nice to hear the full account of what happened in the conference

Tbh I don’t think it’s something that is appropriate for me to post details about. It’s not something to be condoned or shared for titillation.
I am interested in women’s rape fantasies and how the experience of being a victim may have shaped their future sexuality and if that is way of them dealing with what happened to them. I wonder how common that is as opposed to those women for whom it remains an ongoing trauma that they just want to forget about. From posts on this site, it seems the former reaction is common but perhaps that is just over represented on a site like this where we are a self selecting community.
J.

 

[andysmith]

Tbh I don’t think it’s something that is appropriate for me to post details about. It’s not something to be condoned or shared for titillation.
I am interested in women’s rape fantasies and how the experience of being a victim may have shaped their future sexuality and if that is way of them dealing with what happened to them. I wonder how common that is as opposed to those women for whom it remains an ongoing trauma that they just want to forget about. From posts on this site, it seems the former reaction is common but perhaps that is just over represented on a site like this where we are a self selecting community.
J.

odd to post reference to the tale is you do not want to discuss it. This is porn site you realise? Anyway, your shout

 

[Lynnandhubby]

odd to post reference to the tale is you do not want to discuss it. This is porn site you realise? Anyway, your shout

I mentioned it because it seemed relevant to the discussion. My wife was raped and she went on to enjoy being dominated and has rape fantasies. I wasn’t the first person in the thread to mention having a partner who was raped going on to develop a submissive side. I was just exploring whether others felt there was a connection between the two.

 

[Ht805cpl]

I mentioned it because it seemed relevant to the discussion. My wife was raped and she went on to enjoy being dominated and has rape fantasies. I wasn’t the first person in the thread to mention having a partner who was raped going on to develop a submissive side. I was just exploring whether others felt there was a connection between the two.

We agree and understand both sides of the story hope everyone can enjoy and engage n meaningful interaction

Message me if you’d like to talk more about our personal experiences with it we are both willing to discuss the topic .

 

[tonylawson]

I mentioned it because it seemed relevant to the discussion. My wife was raped and she went on to enjoy being dominated and has rape fantasies. I wasn’t the first person in the thread to mention having a partner who was raped going on to develop a submissive side. I was just exploring whether others felt there was a connection between the two.

From my own experiencs there is a definite connection

 

[andysmith]

From my own experiencs there is a definite connection

my current wife had several forced encounters, mostly while drunk and it certainly didnt put her off desieinf being treated in a slutty way by many men

 

[Ht805cpl]

my current wife had several forced encounters, mostly while drunk and it certainly didnt put her off desieinf being treated in a slutty way by many men

sometimes we like being used and treated like a slut. I think it is the same as a man who wants to be dominated by a woman after being in charge all day long. We need to walk on the other side of the street. For me my submission and rape fantasy all stem from my being raped as a young girl, it wasn't until much later in life when I shared them with my husband that we begin down that road of rape play and being used against my consent. As it worked out, I really enjoy it today, but I did not in the beginning when I was raped.

 

[andysmith]

sometimes we like being used and treated like a slut. I think it is the same as a man who wants to be dominated by a woman after being in charge all day long. We need to walk on the other side of the street. For me my submission and rape fantasy all stem from my being raped as a young girl, it wasn't until much later in life when I shared them with my husband that we begin down that road of rape play and being used against my consent. As it worked out, I really enjoy it today, but I did not in the beginning when I was raped.

no yg girl would enjoy that even if recalling it now excites. my wife was easy with her favours as a yg teen and drunk too much so getting into situations against her will was not too surprising. she is ok with discussing it during sex though and we find that exciiting

 

[kort6776]

my wife was once abused by a group of guys who got her to go home with them, they bound her up and took turns, they even called people up to the room, there must have been 6 or 7 of them and a few of them did her more than once. ever since she is very wary of groups of guys.

 

[andysmith]

my wife was once abused by a group of guys who got her to go home with them, they bound her up and took turns, they even called people up to the room, there must have been 6 or 7 of them and a few of them did her more than once. ever since she is very wary of groups of guys.

i bet wary after that but v good that it didnt put her off generally

 

[Ht805cpl]

my wife was once abused by a group of guys who got her to go home with them, they bound her up and took turns, they even called people up to the room, there must have been 6 or 7 of them and a few of them did her more than once. ever since she is very wary of groups of guys.

sorry to hear the bad effect it has had for her, for me that is my ultimate time with a bunch of guys as long as they don't harm me physically.