My wife has not had a lot of men in her life; 5 counting me, but I relate in that I would love to know more. I have heard of some, mostly her ex-husband because he was so lame in bed that the stories were of how she was bored to tears, wanting him to end so she could use her vibrator. These are not stories to down him and flatter me though, just the truth of what happened.
The others I know little about as she will stay mum about them even if I ask. For instance one guy was a one-night-stand and I know NOTHING about her date with him. When I ask about the past, she is mortified that I am interested. Holy smokes she has no idea how turned on I would get!
One thing I do know is that my wife has a lot of ...... fantasies, and did tell me that one ex-boyfriend did try to fulfill it and it went horribly wrong, him thinking she wanted physical violence when really it was a combination of being so wanted he was forceful in getting it. Big difference, yet I have yet to hear how and why it went so wrong. I desperately want to know as I want to play out a long held fantasy for her, but make thrilling for her.
