I am not a very talented writer, but here goes. This is going to be a long thread. It all started with my wife Jenni telling me about her boyfriends that she had before I met her. She worked as a stripper for a short time, and met many men. She would tell me about the ones that were extra large. By the way, all were white, according to her, but she did have one black man that worked at the club who hit on her constantly. Anyway, I found that these stories turned me on. So we ban to use them when we had sex to role play. I found she got very wet and turned on by this. She was young then, around 25. We did not have a real dildo, but we did have this weird vibrating hose-like thing that looked like a vacuum cleaner hose. I think it was designed to go around your neck. It was about 2 feet long and about 2 inches in diameter. Bear in mind my wife was only 5ft. 3 in. and weighed about 125 lbs. But she had given birth to 2 children. I asked her if we could play with the hose thing, and she said yes but just externally. So we started like that, me rubbing it on her pussy, and her talking about her boyfriend's big dick. She would cum so hard, getting soaking wet. Then I finally tried to insert it one nite, and she resisted at first, but slowly gave in. I was able slowly work it into her, until she was taking about 8 or 9 inches of it.
My wife and the long and winding journey
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We continued playing with the hose vibrator, and I was amazed that after a few times she was taking over half of it inside her! That would be over 12 inches. She was getting so worked up, her pussy was so wet, that she took it quite easily. She admitted it reminded her of being with Lance. (I didn't make that name up, I swear) He worked at the strip club with her, too. He was very, very big. She never measured it, but he told her it was 10 inches. When we played with it I would tell her it was Lance, that he had come to our home while I was away. She would come very quickly, and hard. All of this was bringing me closer to realizing that I liked the idea of her having sex with other men. This was around 1991. I continued to role play with her over the next several years, and she always seemed to enjoy it. But it finally got to a point that is about all we were doing, and she said she wanted it to be about us, not strangers. So, it kind of fizzled out for a while, with us just having vanilla sex occasionally. after a while I was able to reintroduce the roleplaying hotwife thing, and we bought some new toys. I had always like interracial porn, and I eventually bought a black dildo. She was not excited about it, but she did let me use it on her. I started telling her it was a big black man that was our pool cleaner, and the first time used that story was the first time she ever squirted! That really got me hot. So from there on, all of our roleplaying was almost exclusively with her fucking a big black stud. I was enjoying the hell out of this, but I knew I wanted more.
Eddie69
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So, to continue, after we would do the roleplaying with the dildo hose thing, she would always make a point to tell me she was not really attracted to black. I thought that was interesting because of how she behaved during our roleplaying sessions. The next step in the progression is we started having sex in public places, like parks. She seemed to really enjoy that. It helped to open her up to being seen by other people, to experience the rush of the stranger again. Then I suggest we start driving around and she pull out her tits and flash strangers. Her tits were, and still are, magnificent. We did that several times and I could tell she enjoyed it. I was laying the groundwork to move this to a higher level. We just kind of continued this kind of activity for a couple years until 2000. Then things started to evolve rapidly.
I was really trying hard to figure out how to get her to take the step of actually sleeping with another man. Then, we had a party at my house, and invited several friends and family members. We were drinking a lot. Late in the evening, after most people had left, only a few guests were still there. My wife's sister decided to walk home, she only lived a few houses away. My wife followed her out trying to talk her out of it, and my friend Tim followed them out. I was so drunk I didn't notice, and was sitting at the table chatting with Tim's girlfriend Melody. My wife told me what happened later. Tim and she tried to talk her sister out of leaving, but she insisted and walked home. My wife said after she left, Tim walked over to her, pulled out his dick, and put her hand on it, and asked her to suck him off in the side yard. She said it was very big, about 8 inches, and super fat. She admitted later it aroused her, but she told me she refused him. I got angry, accusing her of lying about it, and leading him on. Crazy, right? Since this is what I thought I wanted. But when I found out my wife was holding another man's cock, it got real. It took me a while to get back to a place where it was what I wanted. So I went from yelling at her about to us using it in our sex life. I would talk to her about what happened while we fucked, and she would get very excited and cum hard and quick. I was realizing I had an avenue to pursue......
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Excellent journey. Is this as far as you two have got. Also, I get what you mean by "it got real". Long before we tried anything there was play but nothing compares to the real thing, you don't know if your ready until you see your wife with another man. It was sort of the same for me, the first thing she ever did was stroke another man as I watched. A lot of emotions I had to work through but mostly my own ego, in the end it has worked out and been awesome.
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