My wife and the landlord

My wife (24) and I (28) have been married for 3 years and have been renting the same single family home for 2 years. I recently founded out our landlord (50s I think) has been coming over and spending time with my wife while I'm at work sometimes. A few weeks ago I set up some cameras and have caught them doing stuff 4 times now. At first I was furious, but I can't help but be turned on watching the videos. I've been lurking here for about a week reading others stories and just had no idea id ever be into something like this. I don't know what I'm going to do, I have very conflicting feelings about everything. I think I'm mostly just hoping talking about it will help clear my mind
 
What have you caught them doing?
I'd have an open chat with her, tell her you know and find out why she would cheat on you. Then discuss how to take it forwards without cheating and maybe you'll like it, knowing another man is enjoying her, as long as there are no romantic feelings involved between them.
 
What have you caught them doing?
I'd have an open chat with her, tell her you know and find out why she would cheat on you. Then discuss how to take it forwards without cheating and maybe you'll like it, knowing another man is enjoying her, as long as there are no romantic feelings involved between them.
I have seen them having sex in our bed, the living room, and the kitchen. It's so hot watching them, he usuallystays for severalhours and they have sex multiple times whenhe visits. I'm not a small man, slightly above average, but he is huge. And she let's him in her butt which she has told me she doesn't like. She seems to be quite submissive to him
 
I have seen them having sex in our bed, the living room, and the kitchen. It's so hot watching them, he usuallystays for severalhours and they have sex multiple times whenhe visits. I'm not a small man, slightly above average, but he is huge. And she let's him in her butt which she has told me she doesn't like. She seems to be quite submissive to him
Sounds like you've embraced it, be great if she would discuss it though and be honest so then you become involved in some way and she can tell you all about it or if something happens with other men.
 
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First, welcome to the exclusive club of cuckolds.
Next, how do you really feel about it, are you glad or sad? The answer to that will determine what to do.

Many men find out like you, through mistrust followed by some sort of surveillance.

I was a cuckold to my late wife and now to my current GF.
 
Shut up for a while and let it happen. Be on the watch of your feelings, if the turn on is more powerful than the anger, you can recognize yourself as a cuck and then you can talk to her to live on the lifestyle. If the anger does not go away you must confront her and either she stops the issue or you have to split. In my case, very similar, and just married the anger lasted minutes and I was so turned on that I fucked her better than ever. So I lived as a cuck for over 30 years now.
 
One of my old girlfriends used to fuck her landlord she was 26 at the time and I think her landlord was in his 50's , she used to tell me it saved her money and the sex wasn't bad, even after I moved in with her and we shared the bills she would still fuck him from time to time, I didn't mind it was hot hearing her tell me all the details.
 
My wife (24) and I (28) have been married for 3 years and have been renting the same single family home for 2 years. I recently founded out our landlord (50s I think) has been coming over and spending time with my wife while I'm at work sometimes. A few weeks ago I set up some cameras and have caught them doing stuff 4 times now. At first I was furious, but I can't help but be turned on watching the videos. I've been lurking here for about a week reading others stories and just had no idea id ever be into something like this. I don't know what I'm going to do, I have very conflicting feelings about everything. I think I'm mostly just hoping talking about it will help clear my mind
Congratulations on being a cuckold husband
You need to let her know that you are turned on knowing she is a hot wife.
I would bring up the subject but not letting her know that you know anything about what you know so far.
Mention how the thought of her fucking another guy really turns you on and then ask her if she would be willing to fulfill your fantasy.
 
If you confront her, you don't know how she will react and what the consequences might be. I would keep quiet and silently observe. She prefers keeping it discrete on her own terms for a reason, don't rock the boat.
 
I would say you for sure need to take a deep breath and process it all alil more. I mean that being said you are on this site or knew about this site before you found out I'm guessing?? So you do enjoy the idea of her being a hotwife but probably don't enjoy being lied to about it. I would wait a little while and see if she brings him up in any way at all to you in normal conversation which could help you determine her level of romantic attraction to him. Obviously if she can't stop talking about him or bringing him up any chance she gets them she's probably really into him but if she doesn't bring him up to you at all or when you bring him up she doesn't continue talking about him she is probably just into him for the sex? Just my thoughts or opinion but embrace it I say ride it out some first
 
Hmm.... if you enjoy watching her fuck another man, then it should enjoy it together with her if you want to keep the relationship. Maybe text her that you know about it and like it and ask if you can watch her in the same room together. By texting first she wont be defensive, shocked or embarrassed in front of you. Then can talk when she is ready