My shy wife is dirty talking about new things. Is that a hint for hotwifing?

My dear wife (25y) is very shy and innocent talking about sexual experiences, when we have sex, we like to do the dirty talk, nothing extraordinary or exaggerated, it is our usual a question/answer game, I tell her things like she is a horny slut, and she says that she is. We talked about our kinks before any of this, and we are from very conservative families, so it's hard for me to just go directly and ask.

Here is the context: I like the cuckold stuff and wanted to slowly introduce her to this idea, so I decided that I could gain some terrain in the dirty talk. A year ago I used to told her if she liked to suck "dick", she answer as expected yes, that she liked "My dick". Then I replaced the word "dick" with "dicks" (plural) and the first time she answered me something like: "I like YOUR dick" (singular) and easily where 5 more occasion with the same result, of course I alternated the days and the terms to not be so obvious and insistent. In one occasion finally she answered me that she likes cocks (in plural), and I ordered her to say it loud for me, and she said it very loud and since then she repeats it like that 80% of the times I ask her if she likes cocks.

Although I feel that she maybe say all of that more because I ask her in this Q&A game rather than she really feels to say it, until something happened:
I have realized in the days that she is very horny, sex as well as dirty talk becomes more intense and unleashed, and there are very few times that I do not ask her anything and she on her own initiative tells me that she loves cocks (in plural) and that she wants a lot of cum over her, also that she is a complete cheap slut and loves to suck very much dicks, and loves to feel that her body is used for pleasure.

Do you think she have been after one year psychologically entered in the hotwife area or she just repeat things that she said in this Q&A game that we have?

Note: 2 years ago we watched MFM porn and bukkake, she didn't said anything special. Also I asked her directly about our kinks, but she answers what she 'had to say' to not be to lusty (I know that she is not telling me everything because of the fear of our conservative background), but she like to explore and it's openminded about most of the things, also she is sexualy very active.
 
My dear wife (25y) is very shy and innocent talking about sexual experiences, when we have sex, we like to do the dirty talk, nothing extraordinary or exaggerated, it is our usual a question/answer game, I tell her things like she is a horny slut, and she says that she is. We talked about our kinks before any of this, and we are from very conservative families, so it's hard for me to just go directly and ask.

Here is the context: I like the cuckold stuff and wanted to slowly introduce her to this idea, so I decided that I could gain some terrain in the dirty talk. A year ago I used to told her if she liked to suck "dick", she answer as expected yes, that she liked "My dick". Then I replaced the word "dick" with "dicks" (plural) and the first time she answered me something like: "I like YOUR dick" (singular) and easily where 5 more occasion with the same result, of course I alternated the days and the terms to not be so obvious and insistent. In one occasion finally she answered me that she likes cocks (in plural), and I ordered her to say it loud for me, and she said it very loud and since then she repeats it like that 80% of the times I ask her if she likes cocks.

Although I feel that she maybe say all of that more because I ask her in this Q&A game rather than she really feels to say it, until something happened:
I have realized in the days that she is very horny, sex as well as dirty talk becomes more intense and unleashed, and there are very few times that I do not ask her anything and she on her own initiative tells me that she loves cocks (in plural) and that she wants a lot of cum over her, also that she is a complete cheap slut and loves to suck very much dicks, and loves to feel that her body is used for pleasure.

Do you think she have been after one year psychologically entered in the hotwife area or she just repeat things that she said in this Q&A game that we have?

Note: 2 years ago we watched MFM porn and bukkake, she didn't said anything special. Also I asked her directly about our kinks, but she answers what she 'had to say' to not be to lusty (I know that she is not telling me everything because of the fear of our conservative background), but she like to explore and it's openminded about most of the things, also she is sexualy very active.

Sounds like you're on the path to fun!

I'm guessing indian, asian or Arabic, which have certain preconceptions, but from experience with all 3, once wife gets the idea to pursue fun (on her terms), they love it, once it's, again, their idea.
 
Sounds like you're on the path to fun!

I'm guessing indian, asian or Arabic, which have certain preconceptions, but from experience with all 3, once wife gets the idea to pursue fun (on her terms), they love it, once it's, again, their idea.
This really gives me a lot of hope! 🙏🏼 She is asian, you can imagine how reluctant she can be to this ideas, but I'm glad I'm in a good way.
 
I think you are on a good way, but you need to normalise the talking about dirty stuff. For e.g. when you are a bit brank, and send horny arts in dm. I'm afraid that she saying that because she is horny at that moment, and when she isn't horny she might dislike this. I think your next step is to hear this from her in usual 1-1 conversation, not during the sex. And then do a next step.
 
My dear wife (25y) is very shy and innocent talking about sexual experiences, when we have sex, we like to do the dirty talk, nothing extraordinary or exaggerated, it is our usual a question/answer game, I tell her things like she is a horny slut, and she says that she is. We talked about our kinks before any of this, and we are from very conservative families, so it's hard for me to just go directly and ask.

Here is the context: I like the cuckold stuff and wanted to slowly introduce her to this idea, so I decided that I could gain some terrain in the dirty talk. A year ago I used to told her if she liked to suck "dick", she answer as expected yes, that she liked "My dick". Then I replaced the word "dick" with "dicks" (plural) and the first time she answered me something like: "I like YOUR dick" (singular) and easily where 5 more occasion with the same result, of course I alternated the days and the terms to not be so obvious and insistent. In one occasion finally she answered me that she likes cocks (in plural), and I ordered her to say it loud for me, and she said it very loud and since then she repeats it like that 80% of the times I ask her if she likes cocks.

Although I feel that she maybe say all of that more because I ask her in this Q&A game rather than she really feels to say it, until something happened:
I have realized in the days that she is very horny, sex as well as dirty talk becomes more intense and unleashed, and there are very few times that I do not ask her anything and she on her own initiative tells me that she loves cocks (in plural) and that she wants a lot of cum over her, also that she is a complete cheap slut and loves to suck very much dicks, and loves to feel that her body is used for pleasure.

Do you think she have been after one year psychologically entered in the hotwife area or she just repeat things that she said in this Q&A game that we have?

Note: 2 years ago we watched MFM porn and bukkake, she didn't said anything special. Also I asked her directly about our kinks, but she answers what she 'had to say' to not be to lusty (I know that she is not telling me everything because of the fear of our conservative background), but she like to explore and it's openminded about most of the things, also she is sexualy very active.
Be open dear and it's too much imagination
 
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This involves a gradual step approach.. she needs to feel comfortable with you and secure on adventures.. she is young and needs schooling on these matters, normalize her exposure to all things sex while assuring her of your love! Slowly introduce various aspects to her, just don't be in a rush to get her "acceptance ".. it will take time for her to process this .. Best wishes on your journey 👍🍺
 
We are Sort of on the same path. In the last year wife and I have gone from a 6” dildo to a thick 8” strapon, and I ask her things like “that pussy needs to get fucked good, right?” Or “that pussy needs a big cock doesn’t it?” And she happily tells me yes. Recently she woke up in the middle of the night and said she was “mad” at me because she had a dream that we had a threesome. This was the first time we brought up that word so the next night during sex I asked her, “that dream you had, was it a guy or a girl?” She was timid to say, but then said a girl. I was surprised she didn’t say it was a guy, but told her “well that makes sense that you were mad at me lol” and she said “well if it was a guy you’d be mad at me.”

Still trying to process what that means. But you are definitely on the right path. Keep asking her dirty questions and see what answers you get!
 
We are Sort of on the same path. In the last year wife and I have gone from a 6” dildo to a thick 8” strapon, and I ask her things like “that pussy needs to get fucked good, right?” Or “that pussy needs a big cock doesn’t it?” And she happily tells me yes. Recently she woke up in the middle of the night and said she was “mad” at me because she had a dream that we had a threesome. This was the first time we brought up that word so the next night during sex I asked her, “that dream you had, was it a guy or a girl?” She was timid to say, but then said a girl. I was surprised she didn’t say it was a guy, but told her “well that makes sense that you were mad at me lol” and she said “well if it was a guy you’d be mad at me.”

Still trying to process what that means. But you are definitely on the right path. Keep asking her dirty questions and see what answers you get!
Should've told her if it was a guy you wouldn't have been mad at her, you'd of been turned on. See what her response will be
 
Mine was ,and is,shy but once she realised how much power she had over men and saw how excited they got when playing with her she gained confidence so that now she is quite adventurous taking the lead and encouraging men .She dresses to thrill in micro skirts ,stockings and panties and loves the reaction her sexy clothes brings . She loves undressing in front of them,undressing them ( love it when she unzips them and pulls their pants down to reveal their cocks ) seeing their cocks harden and then opening her legs to allow them to slid into her open cunt .It's amazing how quickly this all happens ..her slut side was there just waiting to come out A few photos showing how confident she is now
 

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This really gives me a lot of hope! 🙏🏼 She is asian, you can imagine how reluctant she can be to this ideas, but I'm glad I'm in a good way.
Be carefull what you wish for, once she is transformed into a total hotwife, shes in control. U could be 2nd only, denied, cleanup only, etc, could you adjust to only cleanup,., btw my x wife was asian.,
 
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